Well, let me encourage a different way of thinking. As we’ve pointed out, the blueprint of BoL isn’t just a physical blueprint. It’s a spiritual, energetic and emotional blueprint as well.
It’s my opinion that part of that larger blueprint includes a desire to be accepted by, to comfortable interact with, and to be held in high regard by others. And it’s my opinion that this desire is true for all of us. After all, why would we come to a place with so many others if we didn’t want those things? But more importantly, we need a good bit of that in our early years simply to survive. (Humans depend on being taken care of for a very long part of our early lives or we die.)
So, I would encourage you to continue to use your BoL, which will remind you that you are lovable and worthy of acceptance, attention and appreciation–simply because you exist, regardless of your height or your bone structure.
There is not a baby born onto this planet who says, “No, you can’t take my picture or you can’t love me, because my thighs are too chubby today or because I haven’t grown enough or because the color of my skin isn’t the preference on IG.” That’s just not a conversation that happens…not until some disconnected adults do a long and hard sales job to train that baby into the conditional, dysfunctional, disconnected attitudes of “society.”