My beloved little brother has been going through a lot starting last December. For a few months he had a lot of bad luck, constantly injuring himself in stupid ways - he even had to give up a lifetime trip to Thailand because of a broken bone just days before leaving. But the last two-three months his mental health has really taken a dive after he met his current girlfriend: he says she’s a very good girl and good girlfriend but since he’s been with her his mental health got worse and worse and worse: he’s now been diagnosed with OCD because of intrusive thoughts about hurting her - he never had OCD before. He’s going to therapy (with little to no results) and the therapist has adviced him to see a psychiatrist. He’s also showing symptoms of depression, he’s stopped doing sports and is eating way less.
I live some 800 km away and so am at the rope’s end as to how to help him. This could as well be due to the girlfriend being not a good match for him - he says she’s amazing and all that, but I don’t really trust him to recognize red flags in a girl and I won’t be able to meet this girl for a few months. Also, I’m maybe just projecting because my mental health also went to hell when I was with an abusive person, even though I didn’t recognise it as abuse at the time. Or maybe it’s just plain old mental health issues. He’s 25 now and has a past of cocaine and weed use so the risk factors are there.
Still, the neverending bad luck of this guy doesn’t make me exclude that a curse might be onto him.
Can anybody help in any way? He wouldn’t listen to fields and he’s not spiritual in any way, so I can’t unfortunately direct him to Sapien or to mantras.
