Hi guys, So i am kinda stuck in a situation so basically after using subliminals and fields i have maxxed out my looks and lifestyle i am fit, tall and i dont have any bad habits like smoking or drinking so the problem here is after using fields for attraction i get a lot of stares from women i even approach them and things go smooth but then there’s always something that comes up and ruin things its just like you’re at the peak of getting something and suddenly something unexpected happens and things go downhill at this point i feel like im cursed can you all please help me and suggest me something i dont have any limiting beliefs or negativity but my situation is weird i just dont feel like i fit in the society cause of this and its really getting into my head now. Also i would like to say that i am a lucky person like i always manifest what i want specially money i have a beautiful life and i am grateful its just my love life doesn’t show any improvement the last time i had a girl was when i was 17 years old after that i moved to a new country to level up my life and didn’t found my girl yet.
Just keep moving, that’s it.
Just cuz u miss a shot doesn’t mean u stop shooting…
Ur just in ur own head imo
Literally the only way to lose is by quitting
Hi,
Could you share some examples of unexpected things that happen suddenly?
I think with specificity we can give better advice overall.
So there was a really beautiful girl near a place i used to work she used to pass smiles and signs so i approached her and we exchanged contacts and suddenly she just started ignoring me after that i met some more women they all give me signs but im stuck at stage 1 nothing happens beyond that its not like i do something that turn them off i respectfully talk to them and they like my personality too but its just unexplainable the things just go south suddenly, texts get dry and then theres nothing beyond the attraction stage. I use pheromones fields too and get amazing results but its stuck on the talking stage, also i would like to mention thats its been a problem since my whole life whenever i try to connect to someone things just go off my Ex and me were in a really good relationship but after 8 months of dating her family moved out from the province and then slowly things went downhill. So basically my issue is connecting with someone.
When you go into these conversations, do you notice yourself having certain expectations during the interactions?
Not much but yeah i expect them to be with me like i think “ok this girl seems interested i should ask her out or i think i found the one” but then i feel like im the only one doing too much.
possible that you might be too much of a nice guy?
highly recommend watching some content from these guys
theyve helped me understand what it is to be a man and the male/female dynamic in general
First off, it’s easy to get wrapped up in subliminals and fields, thinking they’ll solve every hudle, including your romantic ones. These tools can be fine if they help you feel motivated or confident, but the real challenge often lies in developing more emotional and social skills. Genuine connection isn’t just about attracting people; it’s about knowing how to connect once they’re in front of you.
Next, you mention that you’ve “maxxed out” your looks and lifestyle, yet still hit moments where it all falls apart. This can happen if you focus too much on surface-level appeal. How you are within and the expression of that will more always matter more when you interact with someone.
Attractive expression comes from a place of 1.wanting to be who you are -being who you want to be (unconditional self love) 2. wanting who you want without fear or expectation.
Because we are what we project, when you unconditionally love who you are and desire freely without fear, you radiate a warm, confident energy rooted in genuine self-value, which naturally compels others to listen, connect, and be drawn to you.
And whether you are looking for a hookup or romance, being able to connect with someone is a necessary skill, that is honed through honestly expressing yourself to people and listening with genuine interest.
Real relationships thrive on authentic emotional connection…things like vulnerability, empathy, and honest conversation. Looking amazing or being fit helps, but it doesn’t shield you from normal human complexity.
When you feel “cursed” or out-of-place, it can morph into a self-fulfilling prophecy. You might inadvertently broadcast doubts or anxieties that push people away, even if you’re not conscious of it. A small setback can become “proof” you’re doomed, reinforcing that belief. Recognize those thoughts and question them, instead of taking them as fact.
Also, being lucky or successful in other areas…like finances or personal growth…doesn’t always translate seamlessly into love. Sometimes, we pour ourselves into external achievements or self-improvement but avoid digging deeper into emotional vulnerability. You can look perfect on the outside while still carrying old insecurities or pains that bubble up during crucial moments in a budding relationship.
So, I believe you should embrace the parts of you that you’ve rejected in the past. It’s not enough to only love yourself when you’re at your best. True confidence means accepting the moments you felt awkward, inadequate, or unattractive, because those experiences shaped who you are.
When you make peace with those memories, you release the tension they create in the present. The way you behave around women or they behave towards you, still stem from those old energies that never got resolved with within you. When you’re clear of that, you become more comftorable with yourself and naturally express yourself from attractively the people you pursue.
Thanks Sammy i believe you’re right, since i discovered the morphic field and subliminal world i got too focused on improving my physical appearance as i thought being better looking will solve all my issues but now i am realizing that confidence and social skills are more important than looks i saw your post about this and then started working on it i went out started approaching girls even though i got nervous but i still did it the only issue is now that i am facing some limiting beliefs from my older self i guess thats why i am not able to achieve what i want so how can i remove the older me thats still in me even though im not like that anymore.
You’ve built a beautiful facade, now you need to build a beautiful and reliable building behind it. In my opinion, the most reliable tool for this is - JAAJ’s Daily Self Love Stack 2024
I think i should start using self love because i was a fat chubby kid and was bullied a lot my whole childhood even though im changed totally now i think my inner self is still holding that grief, so i think it will help also would you recommend old attract love audio and and luck field to use ?
Yeah the older fields are outrageously powerful
What fields do you have today: Odyssey, Patreon (fields that were available last year before they were deleted), Gumroad?
I am a old user of Sapien and i usually buy a lot of fields some of them that i havnt even used. I used to spend my gov checks on sapien lol
Also i cannot see jaajs self love stack as the topic is private can you give me the list of fields
I can’t give you a list that is hidden by the rules of the community. A subscription to Patreon, even for $5, will give you access to an extensive database, including the topic in question.
P.S:
My advice is to do it. Because self–love is the key words of this topic. In general, the fields collected in it affect all levels of a person and life.
until you make the unconscious conscious, it will control you and you will call it fate (or a curse in this case)
think about this and then you will understand why shadow work is so important.
Any of our self love fields would help. We have so many of them. But what matters most truly is doing the shadow work like @toby said.
The shadow work is you coming to terms with that grief. You coming to terms with that chubby kid. You coming to terms with the bullying. That means making peace with it.
I’ll be very specific as to how to do this shadow work:
- Identify & write it down
Ask yourself:
- What triggers me the most, and why?
- What emotions do I suppress or avoid?
- What past experiences still bring me pain, guilt, or shame?
- When did I first feel this way? What happened?
- If this feeling had a voiice, what would it say?
- What part of me do I reject or dislike the most?
Write everything down withoout judgment.
- Feel & confront the resistance
- Find a quiet space and sit with the emotions that arise.
- Notice any resistance to feeling them. That’s part of the shadow.
- Ask yourself: What am I afraid will happen if I accept this part of me?
- Allow yourself to be okay with the feeling. Remembering ‘accepting resistance dissolves resistance.’
Resistance is ‘rejection of acceptance’ and so
acceptance dissolves resistance altogether.
- Mirror work - Accept & love that part of you
- Stand in front of a mirror, look into your own eyes, and say:
-I see you.
-I accept you as you are.
-You are worthy of love, even with this pain.*
-Observe your reactions. If discomfort arises,
breathe through it.
- Integrate & reframe
- Say to yourself: ‘This pain is a part of me, but it does not define me’
- Ask: ‘How has this experience served me or made me stronger?’
- Replace negative self-talk with compassionate affirmations.
- Release & embody
- Take deep breaths, visualize the emotions being released.
- Move your body… stretch, shake, dance…let the energy flow.
- End with gratitude: ‘Thank you for showing me what I needed to see.’
Do this while listening to any of the self love fields. No expectations. No rush. Do this consistently and you’ll be able to finally release abd find peace with this part of you.
Got it Sammy im on it i am going to follow your steps and come back healed. Thankyou for your time 
