I just hold the coin and simply say: “Hi (name of golem). How are you? Please give me lucid dreams when I sleep tonight.” That’s all and It worked whenever I requested him to do it several times. That was over a year now, and I cannot recall all the details and twice, IMO it helped me transition from a lucid dream to an OBE but I did not see or hear the golem.
For my lucid dreaming, I prefer using the psychic card which works for me.