I want to know
How does your feel when you are in love and am I in love?
In my new class there is this girl what looks amazing and has a good personality but In school we don’t talk to much. We wrote on WhatsApp pretty much (full 90mins) but I can imagine if I don’t write her a message first I will never write with her again. Right now I don’t write her a message because I want to know If she is interested in me. 1 week ago we played truth or dare and she said that she finds me the most attractive out of class but things can change. Right now I am thinking a little too much about her that it evens annoys me tbh. Sometimes I visualize romantic situations with the hope that they will happen. And 1hour ago we got a plan where we were divided into groups of five and i’m a group with her, is that luck,bad luck or just coincidence?
Is that love or just a little too much interest?
Because that doesn’t feel so nice
I’ll see myself out while more mature minds answer this one. 
Baby dont Hurt me No moreeee
Love its the thing that make music tastes better :)
what you’re feeling is just lust
Totally normal when you’re really attracted to someone
Love grows as you get to know the person
You can’t love someone when you know nothing about them
Joke of the month :*
I dont know everything about her but we talked about our goals etc.
So I know something about her but not too Much
I’m talking months in a relationship
Deeply knowing the other person
I know this is sounds against the thing you mentioned. But my advice here. Just focus on your education. Don’t worry so much about girls wanting you or not. Put that focus on bettering yourself by focus on what you learn in school and dedicate yourself to focus on that aspects. I’m not saying you can’t have date friend or whatever. But just focus on that education aspects
All of it will help you along the way to fulfill your life with better things. Including your love life someday.
All the attention will eventually come to you when you detach to the outcome. When people give you that attention. Just ignore it like it’s nothing. The more you train yourself like this the more you will rewire your brain to believe that you worth of having that experience. This will attract even more of attention when you do
That’s not a real thing! If you’re lucky enough to find someone you can halfway tolerate, you sink your nails in and you don’t let go, no matter what.
Thank you for this beautiful Text!
I appreciate it
I’d say, just go with it. If you really like here, then like her. If you don’t, then don’t.
You are at the bottom of the learning curve, you’re not gonna get married to that girl either way.
You’re a kid, have fun. If it’s not fun, dump it. You don’t want to start a precedent where you stick to girls you don’t enjoy spending time with.
You’re learning about yourself as much as you’re learning about her.
The older you’ll get the more you’ll know what to look for, what you like or don’t like.
You’ll screen potential mates based on your preferences.
There is the feeling and then there is the maturity and experience. You need both
-Not an expert
Thank you for your amazing text! I think I will just live my life and if she is in there nice if not then it’s nice too
Wish you a nice day
Sounds like expert advice to me
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:) this made me smile. Genuinely.
I find the English language very interesting :p
When I used to speak Hindi, Urdu, Punjabi, and read Gurbani (a blend of Sanskrit, Farsi, so on),
Those languages, they made me realize English’s term for love, is quite perplexing, as it’s very broad.
…
When they say love, which love are we talking about?!
If you ask the child, love is having their mum hold them tight, rocking them to sleep.
If you ask the friend, it’s because they stay up with you late at night for midnight runs to Ben&Jerry’s.
If you ask the boyfriend, it’s because he holds you close in the middle of the night.
But,
If you ask the mother, it is this beautiful, simply unconditional, vibrant energy. It is her very essence. So much so scriptures often times relate this mother’s love to the exasperated devotee’s (for Source).
See what I mean?!
TedTalk aside,
If you are asking if this is love- she likes you, you like her, then no, that is not love, that is contingency. It is dependent on someone’s else’s regard for you, it is an attachment. Where as love is far from attachments or expectations. It just is! It is your very existence, such a joyous way of being.
… and you said, quote, if this is love, this doesn’t feel so nice
Try not to be so much in your head about this perhaps- let it flow, see where it takes you. Everything’s a gamble anyways so might as well enjoy it!
Why don’t you rather ask her if she wants to hang out after school. Full 90 min convos, im sure you have an idea what she likes 
Just let it “flow”, there is no reason to rush anything, let it develop :)
She openly said in front of people she found you attractive, she is having long conversations with you, probably doesn’t understand why you’re not asking her out already 
I asked her once (but in a joking context) and she said no she can’t on this day
Now I think she were honest
Thank you very much
Because of you I got such a brilliant idea
I will try it tomorrow and if its work I will make a Update
Thank you very much
I’m looking forward to that :)
Well I’m probably still not an expert, as I don’t have much experience myself. I’ve read a couple books and given advice to friends. Which seems to have helped them.
You know she’s interested in you, so I think like what everyone else was suggesting you should let her know your interested too.
Try to be the planner and take charge. Also having fun is one of the most important parts that’s what makes relationships beautiful.
Also try not to get too attached or obsessed, live your own life first and keep your priorities first but still make time for her.
In the beginning it’s better to start of small with shorter dates and whatnot, but it shouldn’t be an issue I think to have a long date. It’s something you ease into and you both slowly want to be more together. Better to do things at the start that allows both you to talk to another to get to know more about one another.