Hello,
All the enlightened people, I request fr ur kind help!
I am a 23 yr old and I am really obsessed with relationships, I never had any relationships so far in my life and idk the reasons, I even bought the aphrodite NFt and have been communicating with her but to my luck it never worked, idk why, anyways, I am really tired of being turned down all the time, nobody really wants to even talk to me, when I try to socialize and try to approach I always get laughed at and what not, it has really been hurting me, I have accepted the fact that I am ugly and I am gonna be single for the rest of my life, my real concern here is that how do I really get over my obsession of relationships and being with women? how do I stop thinking about all this and focus on other things in life? because I am really slipping into depression due to loneliness and having zero to none human contact?
Last saturday I really reached a point that i wanted to end myself because I am just so done, I listened to Brain Regen and Depression be gone, internal crucible alchemy but that hasn’t really worked for me, ofcourse I played the subcon limits remover as well, my obsessions and my overthinking has come to a point that it has physically started affecting me.
There are options to become better looking, you should learn and try these options.
I am confident you will gain at least a couple points.
Then, you need to increase your value, have something going on, become more successful and interesting.
Then when you start getting results, you can fix your emotional state, do some deep healing on the matter.
You will find tools to do all that here.
I said to heal your mental state later because I think it’s easier once you have momentum and get a more positive response from the universe.
Otherwise you’re healing yourself to get rejected again. Unless you’re out of the situation that gives you trauma and damage, healing is not efficient.
This is just my opinion, I think you have option albeit it will take time.
You are young.
You have time to leverage a good situation on the mating market.
There are different “specializations” you should understand the demand and your situation to position yourself optimally.
I understand what you say but to be honest, I have used subluminals for years and years but nothing worked so far, if you’re gonna advise me to use NFt’s, I have a few and I am losing faith in them as well as they did not work for me either.
I honestly think, the way to become more succesful would be if I really stopped caring about women and getting laid and only think about work work and work, I have really accepted the fact that theres nothing that can happen, the only thing i am stuck and not able to get out of this dark dark mental place and it just keeps on swallowing me to a point where I think ending myself would be the only right option.
But it’s important to understand that this is not a solution.
You have to understand why this is happening and fix the issues. Your issues. The one that are relevant to you and only you.
Your depression has real causes but it gets a life of its own and keeps sucking you in.
start researching how to make fields work.
Start a new thread and get busy.
I have literally been in all the sub threads in this forum and trust me when I say this, I have tried all the methods and still could not get results, I am pretty patient human being, I have waited for almost years for something to work even tiny bit but still not results, I understand that you reading to my replies can only see me as someone who is pessimist and is not ready to understand what you are saying but that is not the truth, I have tried and genuinely tested literally everything and then only decided to write this.
sleeping and wake up restful
eating and having energy
drinking water enough to not drain nutrients but also enough to have a surplus
working out and feeling good after, having it with ease and progress on it.
recently I started waking up with no motivation left, I eat and feel just fine, I drink enough water, originally I used to workout atleast 6 times a week but recently, I just feel like not working out anymore but I still keep pushing myself and workout against my will.
