Then you have cool options, if the rest doesn’t work.
But also, fields work for you, at least some of it.
It’s about finding your issue.
The glass is half full
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there are different kinds of going against your will
the kind the rewards you after and the kind that drains you after and makes you empty
you know all those things might be a deficiency in omega 3 and vit D as I read them but I am specialist only to myself and I am looking for supplements when I have a bodily or mental problem which I am aware of.
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1st step: Love yourself. This may seem cliche but when you love yourself, life loves you back. I been where you were at, feeling depressed and thinking life is not fair despite me putting in the work, but I’m in a mentally ok place now that I begin to appreciate myself. I highly recommend you listen to a self love stack from JAAJ in this forum and focus on it for 6 month to 1 year.
2nd Step: I recommend you read Neville Goddard, it’s very easy to read and comprehend. Summary is whatever state you are in, is what you attract. Connecting to the first step, if you are in a state of love, you will surely attract love back. The outcome of your reality is precisely determined by your inner image or self concept.
3rd Step: Work on a fulfilling hobby or activity, this may also seem “cliche” but if you are in a fulfilling hobby that interest you, surely you will also attract like minded people as yourself.
Coming from a guy who struggled to get a girl and has a girlfriend now… you got this. I don’t want you to give up until you put in the mental work.
PM if you want and I can help you build a routine from the best of my personal experience. Hopefully what has helped me, will help you.
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never seen so much facts in one place 
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Hi, and thanks again for showing up here and being open to receiving assistance. Hopefully someone will say something that will crack the hard shell of your resistance.
Please know that you are a powerful magical being playing the game of life as an NPC (non-playable character) instead of a super mage!
You have created beliefs out of experiences you have had. Just realize that that’s backwards. If you create new self-talk and new beliefs that reflect the life you desire, instead of letting life (the 3D world) tell you how to live your life.
The 3D world is a feedback mechanism, a mirror of your beliefs. If you start out with a belief that you are lacking in self-esteem and worth and then put yourself out there, don’t be surprised that the world mirrors that back. There are tons of evidence in the metaphysical world that it’s not looks that matter to others. It’s your ammunition = a sense of joy no matter what happens (you can create that as a belief), a charisma that will attract (we’ve got fields for that), etc.
Not getting results from your current fields might also be a symptom of the same beliefs. Check out the works of Neville Goddard and EFT (there is a sapien field for tapping away negative energies), the Emotional Freedom Technique.
And above all, good luck in creating the life of your dreams. It can be done! 
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Obsession is something “usual” in human beings. We all have certain vital issues that we focus on: Love, career, health… The trick is to balance them. I still don’t know who is capable of doing such a thing but I think it doesn’t depend on others. You don’t need it to come from other people.
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I hate to have to do that. Not talking about anyone in particular, I just didn’t say it in my first post (I was going to in anticipation)
I expect a lot of people to say money and looks are not important. That’s like the orthodoxy in this neck of the wood.
Now, you’ll see the same people spamming beauty and wealth fields every single days for years and you’ll get to read their posts in every single one of these threads and see it in their stacks.
They are experts on the matter.
I believe looks matters somewhat and I never-ever use them.
Now, if it doesn’t matter, why they using them and paying for them religiously.
Look at what people use not what they write.
Talk about love spam, beauty, wealth and height or hair/breast.
Like every single thread you will read “it doesn’t matter” and yet hang around and you’ll be sick of reading about looks and wealth stacks and threads.
And you’ll see the complexity of the monsters they create. 24h a day ain’t enough.
That’s time and money that could be spent on enlightenment. But hey… not a take down post.
Cause if you talk about it, you sound like a loser. That’s what it is, as far as I can tell. Afraid of sounding superficial.
But if it didn’t matter, they wouldn’t be selling the way they are, they wouldn’t have been made in the first place.
This is a disclaimer.
Cause I know it’s coming and you have to be ready OP and make no mistake this is a controversial issue because people want some measure of fairness and equality, rooting for the good guy or whatever. But you don’t need to turn on your TV or read any statistics to confirm your common sense (which you can). You’ve seen yourself and other react.
Children know it instinctively, every single culture accounts for it, our biology is set for it and the math has been out for a long time. Studies after studies have confirmed what we all suspected.
Also did I mention how popular beauty fields are on here ?
You should still listen about their real advices on fields and eventual problems though.
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For unlocking field potential these field can help.
Doing these practices on their own have benefits and stuff like that. Now it might take time. Thats why i recommend higher self too.
Self love is also very important as you can see from other posts.
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I remember that Sammy talked about how he and Dream is not allowed by their higher self to do Astral projection.
what if the fields and subliminals are not the way?
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Thing is, there are tons of fields that could be of help…
Even a whole Stack for Self Love.
Higher Self + maybe Grief, loss, loneliness as first aid.
Pranayama is a very good suggestion, it has so many benefits at once. If you can do it rn.
In the long run the usual, cord cutter, devil reversed, soul core restoration, self love stack…
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I mean… we all want beauty and wealth. Don’t we? Well, maybe someone wants to be poor and don’t be “sexy” to others. I mean, I kind of do the second one from time to time but I guess it’s because I “tasted” the opposite.
What about the Inner Beauty Reflected Outward video? I have read that it helps those who listen to it. And if that doesn’t work, then you should focus on what you think is beautiful about you. There is always something. Aaaaalways. And you should add something that makes you laugh… and this is how you train the “muscle” that makes others laugh. Not at you, but with you, of course. And believe me, everyone loves someone who knows how to laugh and make people laugh with jokes, actions or funny comments. Although there will probably always be people who laugh at others, for whatever reason… but start by laughing and then let us know.
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I was doing a preemptive counter argument to the people who refuse to admit that although it shouldn’t be the entire focus of our lives, beauty matters and influences our dating, friendship and career successes.
Nothing too woo woo I think
Again, it seems weird to have to state the obvious but we know how it works. We’re all familiar with the “beauty is not important at all, it’s all in your head” speech. Physical attraction is a very basic and common thing that work in a very homogenous way across every culture and ethnicity.
(Yes, personality and vibe is important too for similar reasons, but looks is more important in pre-selection)
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Ive posted before occasionally on other simliar threads.
Talking to people is a skill that u need to practise.
That includes talking to girls/females.
Everyone gets rejected, thats a part of life.
Sam has written a few times on this subject, about upping your game. (search for the post)
BUT u also need to learn communication skills and to “get game”
Its like how 1 forum member wrote how (after listening regularly to fields) he had a pretty girl go up to him and started talking to him.
And he ran away! Because he didnt know what to say and he felt awkward.
He hadnt learned and practised that skill. Its a skill like learning to ride a 2 wheeled bike or to drive a car. In the beginning u need to feel that u have to remind yourself to do certain things, and after a while u learn by practising.
Fields are tools, they can definately help. But practise is needed.
Is there a reason a female would want to talk with U? What have u got to offer. Do u have interests? Are u passionate about anything? Are u truely interested in what the girl has to say? Are u engaged in life? How do u present yourself?
Try asking a trusted older female to help u.
U need to figure out what u need to work on.
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broskis and sisteritos
the guy is asking a question and cleary is in bad state.
the girl thing should be a symptom instead of a disease
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Personality and charisma are the key to attraction. ALWAYS. Well, pheromones are commanding but not all of us are attracted to the same thing. You may be considered a god by most but to some you are just flesh and bones.You can be a nice house with nothing inside. Some people like that, of course. That’s why I don’t think telling someone who suffers from their appearance that it’s important to look attractive to others. Defining the importance of looks should be done by oneself, not by other people.
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Hello @mondaymadness ,
I highly recommend you start with my Self Love Stack.
Other people are always treating you according to what you deep down believe about yourself in your Subconscious Mind.
It is the Subconscious Mind that manifests your reality mostly, not what you think or believe with you waking consciousness.
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Good luck with your Personality and charisma on dating apps
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This video is programmed to help for various forms of OCD, Listening to it will work with your subconscious mind to help you release and change thinking patterns and states of being that lead to obsessive and compulsive behaviour.
I think twice a day should be enough to listen to this at most.
No need to overdo it.
xD
I liked the always part though
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Well… I found good luck for what I wanted at the time. I’m truly sorry if you think you can’t get anything with charisma and personality. I hope you realize that it is possible.
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