How to get over your obsessions?

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#42

Sorry dude, Looks matter, keep working out, and listen to some beauty fields that can help with your flaws.

But looks aren’t everything, trust me, Im in college, You can’t be a robot, actually talk to people and girls, Ive seen not so good looking guys pull great looking women, and I’ve seen what the incels consider “chads” not really attract alot of girls because of their lack of confidence. But I have seen great looking guys pull great looking women, and they all have great self esteem and confidence.

At your age, looks matter, but also you need to have things going on for yourself, The gym is not enough. You need to be successful in something, I understand you wanna remove the obsession, I would suggest The Smart Tap Tapper****

You don’t need a full on self love stack, You don’t have all day to listen to fields, Start listening to money fields, willpower fields, and muscle/looks fields. Add the smart tap tapper and focus on that feeling of insecurity, neediness, non attachment.

Add become whole as well but don’t focus on healing fields, get your money up, keep hitting the gym, and practice your social skills, and also fix your facial flaws with the free fields, If you need more information message me.

I realized how to attract opposite sex? Be successful at something, Those handsome guys you see, are also amazing at other things, which makes them have such a great aura.

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#43

Charisma is a greek word which means “given freely”. People with Charisma are people that attract the admiration of others and/or are gifted in doing that.

It’s not fitting in the situation because you say to the person that want to improve to not improve and let others define him as charismatic. Which is of course the point of being charismatic

Remember the guy that was hearing the Charisma and glamour? (Not you the people that were in the thread) The guy that attracted like 20 people to his thread asking where are the results and then the whole thing did a boom and then Captain left the forum for some days plus had a fight with another guy etc etc?
Those things happen if you Charismatic and unstable mentally.

That’s why relationships are not stable if you are charismatic and yes you can attract many people while you are charismatic not gonna lie is the easiest too but you can not tell another man to be gifted in letting other people admire him and expect him to stop being obsessed.

Logical result will be the opposite.
Next logical thing he will screw things up because of no experience.
Next logical thing he will feed himself up so much that he will lose total interest.

Charisma (for me only as I see it in the word plus meaning plus how it practicaly applied) is the last thing one should have when not mentally good in first place.

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#44

Never denied that lol

I dont see the connection to my comment

#45

That is not charisma. We all can have it. It’s a quality that can attract others.

I am almost certain that the people who attract many… are not obsessed with doing so. Therefore, if he attracts using a “renewed” sense of charisma, he will stop being obsessed with wanting to attract.

#46

You sure? I literally said that personality and charisma are wanted in dating apps.

#47

You replied to this first

then you answered this

I never said they were not wanted, I implied that looks matter FAR more on dating apps (at least for men)

Just as Phillip said personality and vibe matters but

Thats why I dont get your point :man_shrugging:

#48

Woosh, I thought you misread but now you’re projecting.

That’s ok, however you read it, we can end here.

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#49

What I am doing is that thing of talking about my own experience as I compare it with his, trying to give him a different perspective. Isn’t that what we should do to give an opinion with a basis, dear? I am not “forcing” my feelings onto him. I am not “attacking” or feeling attacked. I am simply affirming the experiences so he can see another perspective. Either way, I seek to help him. And talking back to you or you talking back to me is not going to help him. Or maybe it is… maybe he’s finally laughing.

#50

Please, if you try dating apps, write a funny and dynamic bio. Also add photos with pets. That always works if you want to attract women. Really. For sure. Anytime. We’re super easy :upside_down_face:

#51

lol look up the halo affect, is this not common, ofcourse looks matters.

although am on a different goal, it doesnt hurt to say that looks clearly matters. I remember using divine beauty by PU, and the day i used it, was so different, I was treated so much more different, i havnt listened to it since.

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#52

Hi OP @mondaymadness ,

It makes a lot of sense that you feel yourself obsessed with women. The poor person is obsessed with wealth, the hungry person obsessed with food, etc. It is your soul’s desire to expand and experience, so this isn’t even an obsession more than it is a lack of experience (yet!).

Couple questions:

In which context does this happen? Do even random strangers do this? How about your family members?

I would highly recommend unaccepting this fact.

How are your finances? Are you able to purchase Point of No Return? Perhaps Vibration of Divine Love as well?

Thanks,
and hang in there. People have been worse off and still managed to recover and shine

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#53

Read just this part and cracked a good laugh, thanks for that :laughing:

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#54

I am sorry to hear that…

SELF LOVE Fields, Point Of No Return AND Maximizing your LOOKS And Any Other Areas where there is lack (for example, finances, health, social interactions, etc.) through Any and ALL Means Possible, and there are Many many ways to change Anything in your Life, starting with your MINDSET (Self Love And Self Worth, then other things) And LOOKS …

I barely socialize in real life too, for now, I would recommend Online Interactions, This Forum and other welcoming places, NOT Everyone cares how you look, so not everyone will reject you, especially online.

Take care, my friend, You HAVE The Strength to Become THE VERSION THAT/WHO(M) YOU DESIRE!

@DR_MANHATTAN Gave you some Wonderful Tips, I took Inspiration from his posts.

Also, @mondaymadness, we have around 50 replies, we have people who care about you and who answered here, I see that Some people Really Want to SEE YOU SUCCEED. :sunglasses::pray:

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#55

Perfectly put

I really hope @mondaymadness that Rose’s message to you hit home or at least close to home… Because this is truth at it’s finest… Exactly how it works

Looks isn’t everything at all… Unless you say it is, then it is

Easier said than done, but it’s the first step that is the hardest

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