How to stop people pleasing/caring about what others think

[Seraph]

@JAAJ

Your self-esteem will be pushed up with your vibration (!) Higher self-esteem = more deserving of the good things in life!

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[Nice2knowU]

Hey hi,

@Mouldytea

Literally ill replay the convo in my head and say “did i say that right” or “why did i say that”. I just wanna stop being a slave to other peoples opnion
what could help?

You’re fulfilling it yourself. Self-fulfilling prophecy. Your mind state appears to be in a mode of uncertainty and questioning. With these questions you repeat internally, you are reinforcing uncertainty. From this uncertainty stems the people pleasing.

But the underlying desire is obviously very understandable. Human connection. A deep bond. Who doesn’t want it?

Could you do me a favour and imagine for a moment a really special person in your mind (fictional or non-fictional) whom you’d have such a bond with?

Now take that feeling and more or less copy paste it onto yourself. That special bond, that desire for unity - this unity you’ll need to confirm within.

@Mouldytea

im seen as weird and annoying according to some people

I think this is lovely actually. Personally at this point, I wouldn’t want to be seen as normal. That would be boring.

@Mouldytea

think i love myself tho

From our conversations, I have the feeling you do, yes!

@Mouldytea

Its different from normal, and people don’t like people who are different

In fact, people who don’t like people who are different are usually very close minded. Now that can change obviously. Plus also, their opinions have merit too. You know, people also seek stability and they can probably get it by maintaining a steady life. Then they’d reject different people. Nothing really wrong with that.

@Mouldytea

i also run out things to say too quickly and come off as boring

What my guess is, is that by people pleasing, you kind of attract the wrong type of people who would find your words boring.

I would definitely recommend you the Path to Wholeness and Malleable Ego for writing your inner story anew

Cheers

[Alkul]

sigh

People mirror how you see yourself. Your ego doesn’t let you see this … Malleable Ego/Ego Dissolution + SLR 3 + Mandlebrot Symphony consistently, each 3-5 times a day, at least with 1 full loop in meditation, and return to this thread, after a month or so, to recognize how odd your thinking in it feels to your now future you.

Also, I won’t answer any queries or responses to this reply.

Good tidings ahead.

Also add this to your sleeping stack:

JAGUAR HEALING || Shamanic Sound Meditation || Healing Music || Shamanic Music

At least twice.

It could be at a different time, but this is most convenient.

[Forumuser]

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