@mystichealer
Remember to give a bit more specific detail in your question if you don’t want to end up reinventing the wheel. After re-reading the description of this field, it appears that it will also help you in your current situation. I don’t think you can go wrong with either this or Matchmaker. If you are on Patreon you also might take a look at https://forum.enlightenedstates.com/t/lucky-flows-patreon-shop/86631
The level of relationship is the crux of the matter here. With any field that doesn’t specifically concern only marriage you will have to signify your intent when you interact with it.