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@Sheza

I’ve been using the Matchmaker tag for almost a month and it seems not working at all so I stoped using it for 2weeks now and I don’t know what to do to make it works for me.

In addition to the excellent posts in this thread, you may find these posts by Sam from the Sapien team of interest:

@SammyG

Not really. If you don’t lack confidence all that much and have no problem talking or making a move on the opposite sex, then you’ll likely find quick and great results. Tired of ending up with the same kind of guy or girl that isn’t going anywhere and you want someone that would fit much more with the person you are, then this is great too. Some people may also find that they don’t vibe with the people around them much anymore and want new friends and this can help with that. Or they’re lonely but not shy and this’ll help with that too.

This is not to say that the field doesn’t work for shy people. It does. It just would work faster for extroverts or people who have been in relationships. And if you are shy or lack confidence or have trouble speaking to women/men, then I would suggest working on that first before getting the field. And if you do have the field and are this way already, then email me and I will help you out to the best of my ability. When time permits, I’d like to make a post in regards to this to help anyone out when it comes to attraction.

@SammyG

This is the issue with matchmaker and I wish Dale’s description would touch upon this. The description isn’t inaccurate. The fields are sending this information to your subconscious.

But the issue is that many people who buy matchmaker just expect magic to happen. Many users are already shy and expect others to interact with them by happenstance like it does in movies. Now reality doesn’t work that way. In our modern world, most people are very reluctant to approach others. So if someone is attracted to you, they are probably not going to approach you. Now… they may show signs that they are attracted to you and hint that you should talk to them. But you will never notice that if you lack confidence.

If you lack confidence, your mind will revolve around your insecurities. For example, if you think you are unattractive, then your mind will always convince you are unattractive even if people tell you that you are attractive! A lot of women tend to do this when someone calls them pretty as they’ll say things like ‘Oh no, I’m really not.’ So if matchmaker does make you more attractive to others, you won’t notice it if you don’t find yourself attractive. If someone is staring at you, you generally just won’t notice. If you do notice, your mind might say ‘they’re staring at whats behind you, not you.’ It’s almost like your subconscious can’t register that ‘I am attractive.’ This is why fields take time. We have decades worth of conditioning versus new programming in a span of just a few months.

Fields work around the way that you are already programmed. It can reprogram things over a long period of time but still, they work with the way that YOU work. That’s why everyone’s experiences are subjective. The descriptions are what’s possible with the fields because… truth be told, they are possible. But not everyone will experience every single possibility in the same way because of their programming. That being said, a year or so of wear can certainly overturn conflicting programming. But this also is dependent on your conscious effort to change. Our fields are tools for change. You alone change you.

@SammyG

Also another point with matchmaker is that matchmaker… attracts people that are in a similar vibe as you. I don’t think a lot of people understand what that means. It means people who feel about themselves similarly as to how you feel about yourself… who’s energies resemble yours. So with that being said… if you don’t like yourself and you’re in a bad place, you’ve very possibly drawn people with matchmaker who also don’t like themselves and are in a bad place. Both of you would vibe amazingly but…

You’re probably not attracted to them. You probably already know them too. And these people are just not ‘your type.’ Especially guys, who tend to have certain standards of what beautiful women are in their heads and these people that matchmaker draw to them just don’t match what they have in mind. So, matchmaker isn’t even in question. So you might notice this person in your life but you don’t give it a shot. You’re just not attracted. And it’s unfortunate because the two of you would have great chemistry. (this also applies to just people that could be good friends. Matchmaker draws your energy to other energies that are vibrate very similarly. Sort of like unique magnets aligning themselves to each-other. )

But I understand it’s a very difficult thing to step out of the shells of our standards of beauty, and like people for who they are and not how they look. It’s just the way we are all conditioned. So if you don’t accept the people you draw to you, then what do you do?

Work on yourself. Build up your confidence. I know the matchmaker has a small aspect that enhances confidence but it’s not to the extent that it’ll reprogram your full belief in yourself (confidence and subconscious audio can help with this). Also listen to inner beauty from the ‘Dreamseeds’ channel on a daily basis. Listen to love, gratitude and appreciation as well. Why do these things? You’ll develop confidence, remove limiting beliefs, project beauty from within and introduce love and gratitude into your life.

As a result, you’ll change your vibe in a way that will begin attracting the kind of people that you dream of being with. These kind of people are generally rather confident in themselves and their looks so you matching that will bring them into your lives.

@SammyG

And to add to this discussion…

Fields have changed my life. They really have. Ask people who know me how I was years ago and I was a mess. But fields did not do all the work. I put in a lot of conscious effort to change my ways for the better.

And man, I had a very heavy and aggressive ego that pulled every trick in the book to keep me in the state I was in. That’s where fields helped out. The clearing of limiting beliefs, raising in abundance, shifts in attitudes, raising of vibration, ext… helped drive the conscious effort to change. It gave me horsepower to speed past the muddy waters of my past.

Honestly, part of why I love Sapienmed so much is because it helps with this process. Change is one of the hardest things to do once you’re older and is why most people end up being stuck as however they are for the rest of their lives. The subconscious is like an elastic band that will keep snapping you back when you try to change things. It seeks to maintain the patterns you have already developed.

It’s like having a force of energy pushing against you as you try to better yourself. Sapienmed is a force of energy that helps you push forward against this tide so you can rush past it and be free.

But we have even more fields than we had then to help with this process. Honestly, I think Ego Dissolution is the best field (other than the vibration fields of course but those cost lol) we’ve come up with in a while. If you listen to ego dissolution and then afterwards meditate or just relax and close your eyes… then hold onto your item and imagining it filling your entire being up with energy, your mind will be much more receptive and amplify the effects. In some cases create new neuron patterns in relation to the fields.