Need help Matchmaker tag doesn't work

[anon17734191]

Hold in the left hand and Meditate while listening to Ego dissolution or meditate Theta etc. brainwave field audios or just meditate to it while holding in left hand.
And be sure to cut on some audios, if you listen to a lot of them.

[Atreides]

No, not really.

@Sheza If you don’t have these, don’t worry about it. Just use what you have. Or what you’re willing to get.

[Atreides]

Yeah dude, you had a good approach there. I like what you brought to the table. Just putting my little bit up there as well. Lol. No puns.

[anon96557306]

why is there a need to mediatate on any field? no need at all, I saw things happen after the second month. Just use it yourself and sleep with it.

[anon96557306]

I didn’t even knew she was a girl before answering tbh

[uial]

@Sheza

I’ve been using the Matchmaker tag for almost a month and it seems not working at all so I stoped using it for 2weeks now and I don’t know what to do to make it works for me.

In addition to the excellent posts in this thread, you may find these posts by Sam from the Sapien team of interest:

@SammyG

Not really. If you don’t lack confidence all that much and have no problem talking or making a move on the opposite sex, then you’ll likely find quick and great results. Tired of ending up with the same kind of guy or girl that isn’t going anywhere and you want someone that would fit much more with the person you are, then this is great too. Some people may also find that they don’t vibe with the people around them much anymore and want new friends and this can help with that. Or they’re lonely but not shy and this’ll help with that too.

This is not to say that the field doesn’t work for shy people. It does. It just would work faster for extroverts or people who have been in relationships. And if you are shy or lack confidence or have trouble speaking to women/men, then I would suggest working on that first before getting the field. And if you do have the field and are this way already, then email me and I will help you out to the best of my ability. When time permits, I’d like to make a post in regards to this to help anyone out when it comes to attraction.

@SammyG

This is the issue with matchmaker and I wish Dale’s description would touch upon this. The description isn’t inaccurate. The fields are sending this information to your subconscious.

But the issue is that many people who buy matchmaker just expect magic to happen. Many users are already shy and expect others to interact with them by happenstance like it does in movies. Now reality doesn’t work that way. In our modern world, most people are very reluctant to approach others. So if someone is attracted to you, they are probably not going to approach you. Now… they may show signs that they are attracted to you and hint that you should talk to them. But you will never notice that if you lack confidence.

If you lack confidence, your mind will revolve around your insecurities. For example, if you think you are unattractive, then your mind will always convince you are unattractive even if people tell you that you are attractive! A lot of women tend to do this when someone calls them pretty as they’ll say things like ‘Oh no, I’m really not.’ So if matchmaker does make you more attractive to others, you won’t notice it if you don’t find yourself attractive. If someone is staring at you, you generally just won’t notice. If you do notice, your mind might say ‘they’re staring at whats behind you, not you.’ It’s almost like your subconscious can’t register that ‘I am attractive.’ This is why fields take time. We have decades worth of conditioning versus new programming in a span of just a few months.

Fields work around the way that you are already programmed. It can reprogram things over a long period of time but still, they work with the way that YOU work. That’s why everyone’s experiences are subjective. The descriptions are what’s possible with the fields because… truth be told, they are possible. But not everyone will experience every single possibility in the same way because of their programming. That being said, a year or so of wear can certainly overturn conflicting programming. But this also is dependent on your conscious effort to change. Our fields are tools for change. You alone change you.

@SammyG

Also another point with matchmaker is that matchmaker… attracts people that are in a similar vibe as you. I don’t think a lot of people understand what that means. It means people who feel about themselves similarly as to how you feel about yourself… who’s energies resemble yours. So with that being said… if you don’t like yourself and you’re in a bad place, you’ve very possibly drawn people with matchmaker who also don’t like themselves and are in a bad place. Both of you would vibe amazingly but…

You’re probably not attracted to them. You probably already know them too. And these people are just not ‘your type.’ Especially guys, who tend to have certain standards of what beautiful women are in their heads and these people that matchmaker draw to them just don’t match what they have in mind. So, matchmaker isn’t even in question. So you might notice this person in your life but you don’t give it a shot. You’re just not attracted. And it’s unfortunate because the two of you would have great chemistry. (this also applies to just people that could be good friends. Matchmaker draws your energy to other energies that are vibrate very similarly. Sort of like unique magnets aligning themselves to each-other. )

But I understand it’s a very difficult thing to step out of the shells of our standards of beauty, and like people for who they are and not how they look. It’s just the way we are all conditioned. So if you don’t accept the people you draw to you, then what do you do?

Work on yourself. Build up your confidence. I know the matchmaker has a small aspect that enhances confidence but it’s not to the extent that it’ll reprogram your full belief in yourself (confidence and subconscious audio can help with this). Also listen to inner beauty from the ‘Dreamseeds’ channel on a daily basis. Listen to love, gratitude and appreciation as well. Why do these things? You’ll develop confidence, remove limiting beliefs, project beauty from within and introduce love and gratitude into your life.

As a result, you’ll change your vibe in a way that will begin attracting the kind of people that you dream of being with. These kind of people are generally rather confident in themselves and their looks so you matching that will bring them into your lives.

@SammyG

And to add to this discussion…

Fields have changed my life. They really have. Ask people who know me how I was years ago and I was a mess. But fields did not do all the work. I put in a lot of conscious effort to change my ways for the better.

And man, I had a very heavy and aggressive ego that pulled every trick in the book to keep me in the state I was in. That’s where fields helped out. The clearing of limiting beliefs, raising in abundance, shifts in attitudes, raising of vibration, ext… helped drive the conscious effort to change. It gave me horsepower to speed past the muddy waters of my past.

Honestly, part of why I love Sapienmed so much is because it helps with this process. Change is one of the hardest things to do once you’re older and is why most people end up being stuck as however they are for the rest of their lives. The subconscious is like an elastic band that will keep snapping you back when you try to change things. It seeks to maintain the patterns you have already developed.

It’s like having a force of energy pushing against you as you try to better yourself. Sapienmed is a force of energy that helps you push forward against this tide so you can rush past it and be free.

But we have even more fields than we had then to help with this process. Honestly, I think Ego Dissolution is the best field (other than the vibration fields of course but those cost lol) we’ve come up with in a while. If you listen to ego dissolution and then afterwards meditate or just relax and close your eyes… then hold onto your item and imagining it filling your entire being up with energy, your mind will be much more receptive and amplify the effects. In some cases create new neuron patterns in relation to the fields.

[anon26869922]

@Atreides

Yeah dude, you had a good approach there. I like what you brought to the table. Just putting my little bit up there as well. Lol. No puns

Lmao

[Bronyraur]

I was not intending to write this, in order not to sound like a worshipping groupie lol but all these posts written by Sammy… No matter how many times I read them, the “wow… respect!” effect does never change. The art of covering the most existential stuffs and yet doing it like a flowing river or a finger snap… Pfuu…

[anon71772328]

How about you go out into the world and experience as much as you can, do different things, engage in your life and take ownership of your life instead of expecting some external thing to bring your life to you - just a thought

[anon71772328]

I am full of radical concepts don’t you know - well you do know

[Osho]

I don’t have results also. 2 month’s. Chatting and goining out but nothing like the things i read in the description. I dont know.me i wear it all the time. I am honest.the next final stel is to buy the subconscious tag and i hope then it will work like the description said.(i didnr3 notice the pheromones production and the addictive thing that the description said.the girls are not missed me instead they say they have other things to do and instead to go out.)so i am in the same boat as before.i hope the subconscious tag WILL DO THE TRICK.but for now sorry nothing

[Bronyraur]

This thread is already full of useful inputs. Have you tried the Point of No Return stack as well? With consistency? Or Michael mandala (Samurai was right about that one: indeed, if it was my priority right now, I would have been super flattered by seeing some unexpected guys popping up lately lol).

Otherwise, as already said here: most women appreciate that the guy in front of them “has a life” on his own and other priorities than finding a partner. I can understand that priority but unfortunately, this is something a little repelling for many of us (women). It doesn’t mean that women don’t appreciate attention… but I guess you see what I mean.

That aside, consistency (again) is another key for success in this as well: attitudes and behavior. Unless the girl has some serious problems, she will appreciate that you act in a way inspiring trust. That is; not like “I’m a badass today, a teddy tomorrow and a psycho the next week”. I mention this point not specifically for you, but some other guys who have such tendencies nowadays. But hehe… relationships require guts and integrity :)

Anyway, enough preaching. That new tag might help you as well, for sure. Keep the faith :) I know it’s hard but… that’s precisely why it can be even more rewarding in the end.

[psynergy]

are you really in the present moment when you interact with people you like or are you still in your mind thinking and planning what you’re about to say and being calculative?

i’ve been in a similar situation as you and how you’re describing your situation is ‘inauthentic’. you’ll get better results when you really care about the person as they are and not as you expect them to be for you.

the matchmaker tag is doing exactly what it is doing.

take baby steps like spending more time with a friend or family member you already have a good relationship with.

[RisingKundaFest]

I think it is important to understand that the tag does not change you. You are still you, regardless of the tags and fields you carry.

It is not about meditating with the tag, or boosting or making love with it. It should be understandable that if nothing changes about your life, and you still are the same “boring” person you were before using tags, than perhaps you won’t get results. And here I speak with experience as well.

Then again, what are results? Being approached out of the blue? Having confidence to talk? Getting an actual girlfriend? And what about if she leaves? It doesn’t work then…?
You see, all this inner talk focused on results and being discouraged by the output reality is why things don’t work. People are so focused on the end, that they do not see what they are doing.

A tag should accompany you, correct. But in a sense that it reminds you of change. It allows for the vulnerability to take place, to engage with people whether man or woman without going through a mental diarrhea of thoughts that will stop you from living the moment.
Pheromones should work closely, and especially after people grow fond of you. If you don’t get actual time with people, I’m afraid they won’t work.

Attraction helps but sometimes our behaviors repel people. Think about the times you probably heard in your life the following " I always thought you were a… [insert any negative thing here] … but really you are [insert positive thing]…

Imagine that you are repelling people, by the use of your body language, or even the “approach”… There’s no tag which could help you in this matter unless you figure it out.

Of course all are here to help. Me included, and I’m also interested in the matchmaker tag. I would suggest you make a diary and keep track of the interactions and think your day through.
As for the tag keep it. Make experiences. Again, I can’t stress this enough: EXPERIENCE!

You need at least a person in your life whose reactions get changed or affected so you can decide if it works or not.

If you need more directed help, message me anytime as I’m interested in that tag’s experiences, and of service to anyone here as well.

[abro]

Really great reply… valuable contribution. I remember reading that this field especially needs a lot of participation to make it work properly, and everything thing you’ve said here is spot on.

In my own experience, the thing I wanted the most (a relationship) was exactly the thing I really wasn’t genuinely ready for. Life’s weird like that. Maybe there’s still wounds to heal and lessons to learn. These can be some of the toughest to learn because they’re not really outcome focused and directional as us men tend to be. They exist on a different plane… but also need the masculine direction and strength as a foundation.

[psynergy]

@abro

In my own experience, the thing I wanted the most (a relationship) was exactly the thing I really wasn’t genuinely ready for.

thanks for your honesty! i feel the same way! whenever i’m ready for something, it comes into my life like my dog or my job.

[_OM]

lol…people reading “Candle’s” testimonial and expecting similar results?

Hmm… wonders if “Candle” wants to deal with the backlash of how to get this field to work…

Meh, probably some other year…

[abro]

It’s 2020… what else could go wrong? please share!

[anon28389016]

Give not thy strength to women,

Nor your ways to those who ruin kings.

incoming angry mob

[_OM]

@abro

please share!

@anon28389016

/Some crazy nomsense that has nothing to do with helping the OP/

Yeah, sorry all.
This forum is too… (what’s the word… ???) to get Candle to share his “secrets”

Like I said, maybe some other year.