This is the issue with matchmaker and I wish Dale’s description would touch upon this. The description isn’t inaccurate. The fields are sending this information to your subconscious.
But the issue is that many people who buy matchmaker just expect magic to happen. Many users are already shy and expect others to interact with them by happenstance like it does in movies. Now reality doesn’t work that way. In our modern world, most people are very reluctant to approach others. So if someone is attracted to you, they are probably not going to approach you. Now… they may show signs that they are attracted to you and hint that you should talk to them. But you will never notice that if you lack confidence.
If you lack confidence, your mind will revolve around your insecurities. For example, if you think you are unattractive, then your mind will always convince you are unattractive even if people tell you that you are attractive! A lot of women tend to do this when someone calls them pretty as they’ll say things like ‘Oh no, I’m really not.’ So if matchmaker does make you more attractive to others, you won’t notice it if you don’t find yourself attractive. If someone is staring at you, you generally just won’t notice. If you do notice, your mind might say ‘they’re staring at whats behind you, not you.’ It’s almost like your subconscious can’t register that ‘I am attractive.’ This is why fields take time. We have decades worth of conditioning versus new programming in a span of just a few months.
Fields work around the way that you are already programmed. It can reprogram things over a long period of time but still, they work with the way that YOU work. That’s why everyone’s experiences are subjective. The descriptions are what’s possible with the fields because… truth be told, they are possible. But not everyone will experience every single possibility in the same way because of their programming. That being said, a year or so of wear can certainly overturn conflicting programming. But this also is dependent on your conscious effort to change. Our fields are tools for change. You alone change you.