Here you go, maybe this explanation will help you:
The key to manifestation is what your Subconscious Mind believes (!), not what you with your Conscious Mind do.
The worldview of your Subconscious Mind counts as it is the one that does the majority of the manifestation.
The Subconscious Mind is the most important piece of “you” and your waking consciousness is just a tiny part of the whole.
You can also talk to your Subconscious Mind and negotiate with it like you would with a friend.
Speaking to your Subconscious Mind while in Theta brainwave state will have a huge effect. As well as any other tool that will help to shift your Subconscious Mind’s perspective.
IMPORTANT:
Just like you with your conscious mind, the Subconscious Mind has also free will (!) and it has to change deep seated core beliefs by its own choice. So approaching it as your best friend will help infinitely.
This is also one of the reasons why most people fail with affirmations etc. – because they try to brute force the Subconscious Mind into compliance and change.
This of course, does not work, because not only is the Subconscious Mind much more powerful than this input, but also because its free will is being violated and not appreciated.
How much emotional energy something consumes during conscious manifestation is directly proportional with how much in alignment this something is with deep seated subconscious core beliefs.
Manifesting is easy when your Subconscious Mind believes this to already be your reality as this is then already a part of “you” and your whole identity setup.
But most humans grow up with negative and limiting beliefs in their Subconscious Mind, so upholding constructive ideals consumes energy, because you have to consciously work against your own Subconscious Mind all the time.
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