Ok I watched it. That’s messed up, like the tough love coaches bullying people.
I’m just gonna hurt myself again and again until I’m desensitized. Yeah, sounds like a good idea, totally legit, not fad psychology at all…
He goes there with that failure mindset of make a ton, one will be good.
Doesn’t look like he repressed his issue to me
Edit: after one year:
“I did it guys ! Now, I’m an expert at being rejected, it happens at least twice a day and I don’t even care ”
I guess if it was a sold more as “try to be social and assertive everyday” it might be ok. But then you’d still be wise about it instead of just hitting the wall on purpose
Yeah, I don’t want to go on another rant on that “negative male energy” where they go and create all type of schemes to hide their vulnerabilities and end up even worst.
But he should get a shrink or at least not advertise that stuff.
We all have vulnerabilities and guys are particularly sensitive to these “act don’t feel” solutions.
Just sit down an process instead of running around doing more and more non sense
If you have a hard break up, rejection or got fired.
Sit down and reflect on it, learn the lessons, don’t just run into another relationship or situation mindlessly.
Guys need mommy’s love. Or they go into repressed macho vibe and then you need to talk them out with even more love and patience to make them open up. It’s even less manly in the long run.
Looks like they feel vulnerable because they can’t control, so they go and try to control the uncontrollable by sabotaging themselves by trying 10x harder. It’s not natural, that’s not how you build trust, relationships.
I think its important to be able to work through rejection and go out there to embrace being vulnerable to be rejected is also important.
Running away before even trying is also detrimental for self development, taking risks and going out of the comfort zone is what builds resilience when we encounter rejection. Until we see it as part of life and move on.
But this exercise i do agree fully with Phillip going too far to just be able to turn into a wall lol
I disagree.
This is the same as this whole “work harder” propaganda.
One does not become fearless by taking risks and other forms of “exposure therapy”. All that this does is to create an layer of coping strategy where the original problem is pushed further down into the unconscious.
The solution to rejection, being immune to rejectione etc. is always in having the right installed beliefs in your subconscious mind.
Most issues are not to be solved with ‘action, doing, trying and exposure’ but with repgrogramming the subconscious mind.
Most people don’t know that they have a subconscious mind, and those who do, fail to acknowledge that the subconscious mind controls 98% of their life.
People feel guilty about this all the time and blame themselves for “not taking action” – which actually reinforces the whole problem and the low self-esteem – and then even further fueled by the mainstream propaganda that “you need to take action and face your fears or you are loser”.
What people don’t see is that in almost all cases, it is the subconscious mind that makes them run away and sabotages their actions, because it has a program/belief running in it that this is how it keeps the person SAFE.
The solution to end this self-sabotage is then to reprogram the definition of what is considered “safe” by the subconsicous mind.
so how does going on semen retention magically does this?
the irony
semen retention is a bunch of bs, it only helps with self control and builds discipline sort of like meditation but meditating has its own benefits too, semen retention alone wouldn’t help in the slightest when approaching women.
Disclaimer: I don’t believe in nofap unless you transmute and do some magic with that energy (I guess) and we have jing and ojas anyway if you worried about that.
It’s still an impressive feat of self-control.
Now, based on my experience when you are horny like a maniac and you just want to stick it in somewhere, rejection means nothing. You want her body so much, the consequences fly way over your head. After 1.5 month, it’s like having a drug withdrawal, you’d do anything for a fix.
Making a move is easy in that situation, your P is in control. In fact it’s hard not to make a move at that point.
Better to fix the real issues and learn to have relationships. That trick will only take you so far, you still have no skills, maturity or confidence.
even if i was, i would want to know how it happens, and from that claims one should have absolutely zero social anxiety like if your sperms are addressing the root problems of social anxiety for us lol.
I agree with you that it’s a subconscious limiting belief, there are better ways to increase confidence, what happens once you relapse? guilt, shame, etc. it don’t fix the root of the problem.
i meant YOU, i’ve seen you many times say you have studied the subconscious mind for many years but when i say semen retention does nothing, you throw at me the “try it and tell us what happens” like it’s a smart field from dream bruh.
what this gotta do with anything? lol
nah, i asked you to tell me how exactly does semen retention fixes the root of the problem. you gave me nothing. let me give you something again, there are men out there that are labeled as “nerds”, some of them very innocent and straight up admit they have never masturbated or watched adult content, yet they have social anxiety.
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somebody is getting influenced then👀
but wait.
you literally only find semen retention stories and etc in social media, so… how do you know it works? yea. u dont.
i dont practice semen retention and i dont have a low self-esteem, shame and guilt might ‘always’ be part of the problem CAUSED by another thing other than ejaculating.
Then why do you fail to tell me how semen retention helps reprogram the subconscious mind.
i have a girlfriend, my intentions were pretty clear on that thread, something semen retention wouldn’t help at all.
Now let me tell you something that actually does help, not watching porn, it would help men that see women as sex objects, that’s it. men that think women are here just for them to have sex with.
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