Rejection Therapy

[JAAJ]

@Dr_Manhattan

Guys need mommy’s love.

Yep, I wrote about this there:

(Healthy) Masculinity: The Concept

This will be long but important for both genders, so take a cup of green tea and read on… I am a man. This is a very important topic and one of the main reasons the world is f’ed up in the way it is. The world is f’ed up because most men are in competition with each other for female love – based on a collective cognitive dissonance that female love is scarce, that female love equals purpose and survival and that female love is dangerous at the same time because it binds the man and makes …

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@anon51280824

Running away before even trying is also detrimental for self development, taking risks and going out of the comfort zone is what builds resilience when we encounter rejection.

I disagree.
This is the same as this whole “work harder” propaganda.
One does not become fearless by taking risks and other forms of “exposure therapy”. All that this does is to create an layer of coping strategy where the original problem is pushed further down into the unconscious.

The solution to rejection, being immune to rejectione etc. is always in having the right installed beliefs in your subconscious mind.

Most issues are not to be solved with ‘action, doing, trying and exposure’ but with repgrogramming the subconscious mind.

Most people don’t know that they have a subconscious mind, and those who do, fail to acknowledge that the subconscious mind controls 98% of their life.

@anon51280824

Running away before even trying

People feel guilty about this all the time and blame themselves for “not taking action” – which actually reinforces the whole problem and the low self-esteem – and then even further fueled by the mainstream propaganda that “you need to take action and face your fears or you are loser”.

What people don’t see is that in almost all cases, it is the subconscious mind that makes them run away and sabotages their actions, because it has a program/belief running in it that this is how it keeps the person SAFE.

The solution to end this self-sabotage is then to reprogram the definition of what is considered “safe” by the subconsicous mind.

[Nice2knowU]

Ooops i was just going to share this video with a friend who got scared when asking a lady her number. What advice should i give him instead?

[JAAJ]

If he goes on semen retention mode, then after 4-6 weeks he should have zero social anxiety, even without fields.

Otherwise:

@JAAJ

Why not simply listen to Unbreakable, Extreme Confidence, Amygdala Healing and Archetype of Parental Love?

[anon36920264]

@JAAJ

The solution to rejection, being immune to rejectione etc. is always in having the right installed beliefs in your subconscious mind.

so how does going on semen retention magically does this?

@JAAJ

Most issues are not to be solved with ‘action, doing, trying and exposure’ but with repgrogramming the subconscious mind.

the irony

semen retention is a bunch of bs, it only helps with self control and builds discipline sort of like meditation but meditating has its own benefits too, semen retention alone wouldn’t help in the slightest when approaching women.

@JAAJ

What people don’t see is that in almost all cases, it is the subconscious mind that makes them run away and sabotages their actions, because it has a program/belief running in it that this is how it keeps the person SAFE.

and this is your ego.

[Zen]

on it

[Dr_Manhattan]

Disclaimer: I don’t believe in nofap unless you transmute and do some magic with that energy (I guess) and we have jing and ojas anyway if you worried about that.
It’s still an impressive feat of self-control.

Now, based on my experience when you are horny like a maniac and you just want to stick it in somewhere, rejection means nothing. You want her body so much, the consequences fly way over your head. After 1.5 month, it’s like having a drug withdrawal, you’d do anything for a fix.
Making a move is easy in that situation, your P is in control.
In fact it’s hard not to make a move at that point.

Better to fix the real issues and learn to have relationships. That trick will only take you so far, you still have no skills, maturity or confidence.

[anon36920264]

@Dr_Manhattan

you still have no skills, maturity or confidence.

me?

[Dr_Manhattan]

Nah, I’m agreeing with you. It’s a general “you”.

[anon36920264]

@Dr_Manhattan

Now, based on my experience when you are horny like a maniac and you just want to stick it in somewhere, rejection means nothing

it feels like type of fearless from a psychopathic.

[JAAJ]

@anon36920264

so how does going on semen retention magically does this?

Try it and find out for yourself.

@anon36920264

semen retention is a bunch of bs

You are completely wrong.

@anon36920264

and this is your ego.

Ego and subconsicous mind are deeply interconnected.

I recommend you actually do more research on ALL the mentioned topics.

[anon36920264]

@JAAJ

I recommend you actually do more research on ALL the mentioned topics.

mister i have done research for 15 years about the subconscious mind, what don’t you give us some insights then

[anon36920264]

@JAAJ

Try it and find out for yourself.

even if i was, i would want to know how it happens, and from that claims one should have absolutely zero social anxiety like if your sperms are addressing the root problems of social anxiety for us lol.

@JAAJ

You are completely wrong.

I agree with you that it’s a subconscious limiting belief, there are better ways to increase confidence, what happens once you relapse? guilt, shame, etc. it don’t fix the root of the problem.

[JAAJ]

@anon36920264

i have done research for 15 years about the subconscious mind

Really? In another thread you said you are 18:

@anon36920264

The ‘problem’; Everytime i use it, The first time women co workers see me at work, they just literally notice im a ‘kid’, they say something along the lines… “you are so young” “how old are you?” “you look like i could be your mother” some complimented my eyes and etc. Also my girlfriend says i smell like a baby, and every-time i use suddenly “she loves my smell”.

It doesn’t bother me, since i already have a girlfriend but i can’t make sense of it, so i need you guy’s help and conceptual skillz.

im 18, 5’8 and have cute eyes (factz💯)

That means you are lying in either this thread or the other

You also recommend books from L. Ron Hubbard in another posts:

@anon36920264

1)Read these books:
Mastery By George Leonard
Basic Study manual by L. Ron Hubbard
Student Hat Dictionary by L. Ron Hubbard
(I believe the last two help you with conceptual thinking )

THIS ARE NOW 2 MAJOR RED FLAGS FOR ME ABOUT ANYTHING THAT YOU WRITE!

@anon36920264

what don’t you give us some insights then

I did. Read ALL my other posts.

@anon36920264

i would want to know how it happens

Then use the internet, it is full of “semen retention success stories” and explanations.

@anon36920264

what happens once you relapse? guilt, shame, etc. it don’t fix the root of the problem.

Shame and guilt are always part of the problem, and that is why the nofap community is mostly toxic and very low self-esteem.

@anon36920264

mister i have done research for 15 years

Also, research alone means nothing. Only results count.

And according to your own story in the other thread your are not getting any so far:

@anon36920264

This is where i’m making a mistake.
I work in a retail store in US, and it’s just painful, slavery wages, expectations of doing too much, and me being the new guy, they will obviously take advantage of me.
I want to be seen manly and likable so all of the mentioned above stops, and it kind of did, maybe their perception of me and that extra attention plus me standing my ground, telling them what i want and don’t want, got me in a better place, i mean… i even got a dollar raise without notice. Anyways, I knew i could’ve used Torus Weaved Respect, but i can’t spend money.

[anon36920264]

@JAAJ

Really? In another thread you said you are 18:

i meant YOU, i’ve seen you many times say you have studied the subconscious mind for many years but when i say semen retention does nothing, you throw at me the “try it and tell us what happens” like it’s a smart field from dream bruh.

@JAAJ

THIS ARE NOW 2 MAJOR RED FLAGS FOR ME ABOUT ANYTHING THAT YOU WRITE!

what this gotta do with anything? lol

@JAAJ

I did. Read ALL my other posts.

nah, i asked you to tell me how exactly does semen retention fixes the root of the problem. you gave me nothing. let me give you something again, there are men out there that are labeled as “nerds”, some of them very innocent and straight up admit they have never masturbated or watched adult content, yet they have social anxiety.

@JAAJ

Then use the internet, it is full of “semen retention success stories” and explanations.

?

@JAAJ

But then you go on Social Media and YouTube and browse there for hours through irrelevant stuff with negative click-bait headlines and recommendations and people with fear/lack mindsets

somebody is getting influenced then👀
but wait.

@JAAJ

do not browse social media feeds

you literally only find semen retention stories and etc in social media, so… how do you know it works? yea. u dont.

@JAAJ

Shame and guilt are always part of the problem, and that is why the nofap community is mostly toxic and very low self-esteem.

i dont practice semen retention and i dont have a low self-esteem, shame and guilt might ‘always’ be part of the problem CAUSED by another thing other than ejaculating.

@JAAJ

Also, research alone means nothing. Only results count.

@JAAJ

Before we proceed I need to tell you that I see most of the mainstream psychology and science as totally wrong, based on completely false assumptions about conciousness and reality.

I have been studying this stuff (and other related stuff) for 20 years and been working with the subconscious mind for 15 years.

Then why do you fail to tell me how semen retention helps reprogram the subconscious mind.

@JAAJ

And according to your own story in the other thread your are not getting any so far:

i have a girlfriend, my intentions were pretty clear on that thread, something semen retention wouldn’t help at all.

Now let me tell you something that actually does help, not watching porn, it would help men that see women as sex objects, that’s it. men that think women are here just for them to have sex with.

[Dr_Manhattan]

@anon36920264

i meant YOU,

Damn, I misunderstood too, now I feel stupid lol

Anyway, the bro out is over, time for the bro down. I think I speak for everybody when I say you are both really cute and we want to see a kiss.

This quarrel is over !
Look at what you have done to Zen’s beautiful thread

[anon36920264]

@Dr_Manhattan

Damn, I misunderstood too, now I feel stupid lol

its probably my fault, spanish is my first language and i have the habit of saying or asking questions the same way one would in spanish

[Dr_Manhattan]

Either way, I’m gonna keep an eye on you two troublemakers. Don’t force me to call Sammy, I will !!

[JAAJ]

@anon36920264 :
All your questions are answered here on this forum through mine and other people’s posts.

If you don’t want to search and read, there is nothing I can do for you. It is your life. I will not write the same stuff again and again.

PS:

@anon36920264

there are men out there that are labeled as “nerds”, some of them very innocent and straight up admit they have never masturbated or watched adult content, yet they have social anxiety.

Finding a man in modern society who is “very innocent and has never masturbated or watched adult content” is like finding the one guy out of 100,000 guys to whom this would apply. Very very rare. And if you find one, then this would classify as a pathological case anyways, not something to be solved with semen retention only.
Such men have major chakra blockages (= incl. stuck sexual energy), plus very deep seated trauma.
Maybe even so-called “Psychological Reversals”.

@Dr_Manhattan

I’m gonna keep an eye on you

Don’t force me to call your Higher Self

[Dr_Manhattan]

@JAAJ

Don’t force me to call your Higher Self

I dare you to

[anon25711007]

Got vaccine

Went to McDonald with vaccine passport for free McDonald

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