your telling me i should only speak to people who are on the same path as i am? cmon man thats just unrealistic tho… thats like 1 percent of the population
even if i find them are we just gonna talk about self improvement?
I wanna be able to talk about various topics for hours on end with anyone… i think conversation is beauitful and i wanna connect with people from all walks of life and not be alone
That´s not what I said…
Sounds like more self love is needed 
If you find it painful to be alone then that’s understandable of course but once this course and other fields have given you all they can offer you should be literally whole as in you don’t need anything no external validation just happy and content being you. A good milestone for my self so far is I almost have a feeling of fear of becoming ANYONE else like I don’t care how rich or what ever they are I only want to be me now an this feeling is beyond liberating
I say write some big goals down an work towards them then let things unfold on this path new people etc will come in all the while you are working towards something you actually want and just remember don’t change your goals or path for someone else… everyone is temporary no girl no friend is worth sacrificing your dreams for IMO. An honestly if they want you to sacrifice your dreams they are no friend of yours they are a hindrance to your progression
Just remember this people are suffering these issues without fields in their life… you have literal super powers at your hands an this forum is like the avengers honestly when you start thinking like this you start to feel so powerful just watch out for a ‘god-complex’ or something like that lol
You live a blessed life and have a little temporary problem don’t stress it don’t think it won’t change it will I’m sure before fields you thought ‘life is shit it’s all ways going to be like’ or something similar and now look at it ?
Gratitude for blessings
Get looping this
Ive never experienced true friendship or love with anyone though… how can i be content with that if ive never had one of the essential things that humans need ?
If i had deep connections before and i lost them , then yeah self love would be good but i just need to experience a true friendship with some in realblife
sorry for misunderstanding you… english is not my first language
That’s even better !!!
Trust me change your perspective on these things that means when you do experience these things it will have so much more meaning to it it’s like if you eat your favourite food all the time it gets boring… Imagine if you could go back to eating it for the first time!
I suppose this is very optimistic way of looking at it i understand your finding it painful it will pass you are never truly alone we are all one.
Your currently making more progression in a week then most do in a year remember that see this as your time in the cacoon waiting to come out an flourish in the world… your becoming a new you that’s clear your making amazing progress don’t doubt it because you haven’t got everything you want yet. You don’t read the first few pages of a book an moan that you don’t know the whole book yet do you…
No need to apologize.
Sure you are aware of these but I’ll put them down anyway.
Attract More Love Into Your Life: Energetic and Morphic programming - Patreon
Attract your soul tribe (Patreon + Dream Seeds Release)
Work on your lower chakras might help I think.
already listening to those but thank you and Freedom for your kind words god bless you all
I know you said you don’t use other creators but @Ugninis has said he his friends with touch of the gods and that is all the proof you need that he is a solid creator
Torus of Unconditional Self Love
Absolutely amazing field so far give it a try for definite x2 a day is more then enough
The problem is you are trying to approach it from an entertainer side. It’s not your job to entertain the conversation, both parties need to have a topic that they share in common with in order to engage in a conversation for more than 5 minutes.
What exactly are you struggling with specifically? Having limited knowledge to contribute to the conversation? Being able to say things? Being in the present moment to engage in talking?
If for example you were talking about a sport that you had no knowledge about, it would cut the conversation pretty shortly.
I talk with my girl, we say boring stuff. It’s ok to be boring. It’s ok for conversations to be dull at times. This is all in your head.
this exactly , i just run out of things to say. My brain is a foggy mess
Ok.
Problem: limited knowledge
Solution: start learning various topics. Don’t learn crap you are not interested in. Find things you enjoy learning and find your group interest.
This is easier said than done but morphic fields save the day lol.
Crank those brain fields and attract love fields up.
Still causally loops brain fields all day though 
Thank you 
And lastly, not sure if your dopamine system is wack, but get that sorted out also asap.
Porn + bad habits will drag you down further.
Join the sexual energy retention club. 
For one, I commend you gaining the level of self love you have gained. It’s something 92.87% of people in this world never get to experience (I just pulled that stat out of nowhere, don’t trust it 
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Now, when part of self love is loving yourself when you fail. Loving your thoughts, no matter how boring they might seem. Loving yourself when you get rejected. That is when you really win the game and gain true wholeness. True self love. It is when you learn to love yourself at your worst.
I think you still can. The fact you’re going out there, approaching people, talking and trying… goes to show that you’ve grown quite a lot. That’s incredible and worth feeling amazing about. Like sure, you got rejected by the cute girl you approached but… you approached a cute girl! Every single time you do that, you gain more courage and resilience to rejection. And in that resilience and courage, your mind will begin to naturally release from nervousness (brain fog) and just become fully in flow and just flow with interesting dialogue!
The biggest thing with beginning to be social is that, it is going to take practice. But as with anything, the more you do it, the better and more natural you become. Look at as an RPG, your social stat is like level 1 right now and the more you socialize, the more it levels up. It’s inevitable.
And dude, I got to tell you, you are doing better than 96.43% (another made up statistic lol) of guys out there that are also feeling lonely but… are doing absolutely nothing about it. So that is certainly something to love and appreciate.
That being said, now let’s get down to business: being an interesting conversationalist. I have some tips here.
But before I do, I must ask… what are some things you enjoy or are into? Passionate about? What kind of things do you like to listen to people talk about? What kind of things would you like to say to people? If you were the best conversationalist in the world, what would you be like, what kind of things would you say and how would you make people feel?
Thank you for the advice
Im really into footballl (soccer), anime and spirituality I guess, quiet niche subjects so kind of hard to weave into conversation unless theyre interested in it aswell
Hmm I like when they tell funny stories I guess and id like to do the same 1 day and I just enjoy making people laugh and when I do its quiet a good feeling
Honestley anxiety and nervousness around others isnt even a problem anymore thank god , its just running out of things to say
@Murse You were telling also telling me you were getting results and telling me things like ‘you haven’t felt like this in a long time’ when you first started using the course and then in your deleted post, you go about saying you haven’t felt anything at all. I don’t mind you saying something hasn’t worked for you, but don’t tell me one thing and then go online and say another.
I can understand you getting upset that your email didn’t get responded to right away. But I didn’t catch your email. It went to spam. So I wasn’t deliberately ignoring you.
Now, you’ve come to me due to your issues with body dysmorphia which is more of a psychological disorder that might require some professional help. That’s a very obsessive toxic pattern that typically is also very engrained into your subconscious.
My intuition gave me a potential powerful practice to what might be able to break the pattern but it’s rather extreme and would be very difficult. It’s just that in your case, extreme difficulties require extreme responses.
Listen to acceptance and resilience on one device and have confidence+self love playing on another device. And then look your ugliest. Look your worst. Look at yourself in the mirror, and proclaim I accept myself at my worst. I embrace myself at my worst. I love myself at my worst. Over and over again. And… ANTICIPATE THE RESISTANCE.
The resistance is the force of the body dysmorphia pattern itself. The whole point of the exercise is to invite the resistance so that you can dissolve it with love/acceptance. And embrace that feeling. Swim in it. Feel it with love and appreciation and gratitude. Surrender to the discomfort. While you keep saying the three phrases.
Why would this work? Because one of the biggest issues we all have is that sure, we might like ourselves under certain conditions but if we look our worst, are failing, get rejected, ext… we automatically hate ourselves. And because of your body dysmorphia, your mind will obsessively look for things to not like about your appearance. So it’s always looking for ‘the worst of you’ at every moment. So it’s time to engage in real self love and condition yourself to love the worst of your appearance, so that that the obsessive pattern can’t find the worst of you anymore because you there is no worst of you. It’s all you and you love all of you.
An essential aspect of Self Love and Confidence is to still love and accept yourself at your worst. If you can love your shadow, you become your light and your best self will naturally shine.
And why… I really want an answer to this now… to anyone in this forum that does not unconditionally love themselves… why not? You are YOU.
It doesn’t matter whether you are right or wrong, ugly or beautiful, successful or failure, you are YOU and there is no good reason you shouldn’t unconditionally love yourself. You deserve your own love. You deserve to be your own friend. You deserve your own sympathy and supportive energy. You can choose to love yourself no matter how low you are and that love, would help rise you out whatever hole you are in. Help bring out the best in you at all times.
Nobody’s out there caring about what’s going on inside your head. And if they did, it really doesn’t matter because their thoughts are THEIRS, not YOURS. If your peace depends on how others think of you, your peace will depend on other peoples validation… which will come and go. It will never fully last and you will endlessly chase it. If your peace depends on how YOU think of yourself, then you can think anything you want about yourself and feel love, peace and confidence within yourself at all times, under all conditions.
So if you could think anything you want about yourself so why the hell not love yourself no matter what? There’s no reason not to. Can someone give some reasons? This is an open conversation and I really want to know the reasoning behind why you shouldn’t unconditionally love yourself.
And don’t get me wrong… I know there are aspects of us that are unhealthy. But to unconditionally love yourself would mean to accept and still love these aspects of us and through that self love, we would connect to these parts of us and have so much more willpower to actually change it. When we are fighting/rejecting ourselves, we lose a lot of willpower to the inner conflict we have within our mind. Do you understand this or is it confusing?
I know I sound a bit dramatic or maybe condescending but it’s moreso just a lot of passion lol. I just really want to know the reasoning, and the logic behind not unconditionally loving yourself. I’m trying to understand this from other people’s perspectives. I used to hate myself too so I already understand quite a lot of the reasoning and I know it’s not really just a choice. I’m making it sound like you could just say ‘I LOVE MYSELF’ tomorrow and then boom, you feel whole. Haha, I know it’s not like that. It has taken me years for me to get to where I am. But I really want to hear from some of you now to get an even deeper understanding.