You are confusing cause and effect.
Toxic feminism/masculinism is a consequence of the the non-integrated gender energies.
You are doing the same as incels, femcels, PUAs, MGTOW, black pillers, angry feminists etc. do, namely blaming the opposite gender and being a victim.
Most men today are not weak because they are “held down”, but because they are traumatized, under a cognitive dissonance, and can’t find a solid INTERNAL basis to build their masculine enegry upon.
Additionally many choose the victim role, because it is always the easy role.
No I am not.
You have completely missed by point.
I suggest you read again what I wrote.
You are confusing cause and effect.
Yes, seeking sex is part of being a healthy male (and female).
It becomes a problem when it is a cope for deeper underlying psychological issues and when you are no longer the master of how you express your sex drive.
No, at all! Again you completely miss my point.
Healthy sexuality never goes hand in hand with shame.
Most men are ashamed of their sexuality because as children or teenagers they experienced the trauma that they “could lose access to the love of their mother”, if they dare to show sexual interest in other women.
And then later in life, additionally, when they were masturbating and watching porn, they acquired additional feelings of shame and guilt “that it is not okay experience pleasure by one self” or “by something that is not a physical women that is approved by the mother”.