Single or in a relationship? - Now also featuring a poll

I respect that despite all our differences in opinions, we tend to for the most part, respect our differences. Ya’ll handle yourselves quite maturely for the most part and I’m very fond of that.

I will admit, I get a bit weary when I hear guys say things like ‘girls ain’t shit but hoes and tricks’ cause well there are ladies in this forum. And that can be rather disrespectful to the ladies and make them want to stay away from this place. It’s happened before lol.

But that being said, I think we will never move forward as a society in these days in time if we can’t have mature conversations about these kinds of things. Just avoiding it all together and being so quick to jump and judge others is the reason we are so divided today. We gotta have these hard conversations and accept that this is how some people are thinking. And perhaps try to understand why they’re thinking that way. I think our aversion to their kinds of perspectives drives them further in.

Entertaining these thoughts, understanding them and perhaps suggesting healthier alternatives goes a long way. Just telling people they are wrong and crazy is what everyone is doing these days and obviously… that doesn’t work.

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I think you forgot to mention “Sexual Energy”.
Yang-Jing and Yin-Jing is what also makes a man and woman attractive.
The secret magnetic force between the two.

The higher the delta (difference) between a men’s Yang-Jing and a female’s Yin-Jing, the stronge the sexual magnetic pull attracting them to each other.

A high amount of sexual energy can make you successful with the opposite gender even if you are average looking etc.

:fire: :fire: :fire:

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hehe, far from spiritual Just focusing on remaining calm and collected within my emotional/mental states at least at the moment.

the username “Zen” is just as legit as “Fedex” and “The Federal reserve” :rofl:

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While I was busy simping over girls one by one trying to earn some sympathy, you guys have been researching and building a science :laughing:

Focus and dedication :muscle:

We’re not on the same level at all

It’s a good thing

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I loved my husband before we were married, when he was making minimum wage as a single father, when he was broke and needed me to be a breadwinner, and I love him now just the same, but our financial situation is better. Honestly I have had to fight the world for our relationship. So many people were against it for prejudicial reasons. Who here has had a love they are willing to fight for? You are giving up before even getting started.

I think the missing piece is seeing people are human beings with souls and inner lives. Here I see a lot of objectification when you talk about “women.” It’s like “they” are this way or that way. If you only want to relate to an idea, you will never make a real connection or find love.

About love: You get what you are, not what you think you are or what you want.

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Single.
I prefer to have my fun and focus on myself so I can be ready for a relationship when the time comes to settle down. Just having casual relationships in the meantime, I’ll admit it’s somewhat unfulfilling emotionally.

I know my soulmate/twin-flame is out there somewhere and BoLove will guide them to me and vice versa
THANK YOU BLUEPRINT OF LOVE :heart: :heart: :pray:

My thoughts exactly, if I were to get in a relationship now, it would be for the regular sex. No obligations for them to be the one for me, just enjoying our youth together.

That’s exactly how I like it and give it. Love fucking as my man King A put it lol It’s all love.

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Knight midset/Extreme confidence field and testosterone obviously

? child like wonder

Abundance Mindset

Any arcana archetypes i guess

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Lol🤣

I have a boyfriend. Sińce were together i keep thinking that i have less time for fields.

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FIELDS POWER!!!

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I actually wanna know StBiceps / Jon(Snow(YouKnowNothing))Sara’s answer to this poll @IAmJonathan

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Fortunately we both have our hobbies and need time alone. Even now. He is on his forum playing games.

I’m on my forum playing fields. :wink:

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That sounds really cute, and reminds me of Maoshan’s stories with his gf

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what the Fuck is this about?

The name is not to be tampered or wreckoned with
Solemnly swear not to again

No need actually

That’s all for now…

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Maybe a play on the name Jon?

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No we are Goddess and God

Look at our profile bio for explanation

That’s all for now…

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Jonsara :clinking_glasses::champagne:

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Tank You.
Sometimes its kind of funny how we do the same things but in tottally difrent way,mindset.
Even his forum looks a bit like our. And playing video games with friends is his way of meditating,relaxing, boeing in parrarell reality as he desribed it.

Its the same for me here.

I just play difrent kind of games.:wink:

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A joking reference to Game of Thrones, of course

No jokes around our name.

Just As we respect and cherrish the ones you’ve been given…

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To be clear:
That was not meant in a disrespectful manner

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