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Agree with this. It lacks accountability. It’s everywhere, IG, YT etc.

Ultimately, you and I chose the women/men we have interacted with, engage with, had relationships with etc. If the majority of who you engage with, attract, have relationships with, you think are toxic/hoes/tricks… It actually says more about you, not the “toxic” girl or guy.

It is a reflection of our decision making, self esteem, self worth, self respect, beliefs.

I know so many women that conduct themselves with integrity, honour, keep their word, follow through, are accountable, take responsibility of their mistakes/weaknesses/behaviour/shadow., have self control, are disciplined. There are tonnes of women out there that they have developed their inner masculine. And have faced their shadow feminine.

Recently I was talking to a man I met in 2017, when we were both living in Bali. I told him that when we met back then, I sensed that because of my beauty and appearance, that I could have manipulated him, used him for his money/gifts/luxuries/trips, his provision. And that I did not want to do that (it’s not how I conduct myself), I decided not to see him again. I could tell he did not have the backbone, inner security, self agency etc.

Well the woman he met after me, used him and siphoned him for 4 years and did huge amounts of emotional, mental, financial damage to him. So yes those women exist, as do women who conduct themselves with integrity.

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Well written! So true :purple_heart:

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Man, I like the level of respect Muslims show to Women, in this case your buddy’s Girlfriend or Wife.


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