Sometimes they just wanna believe what they wanna believe about their parents. They have grown up now and made their protection shield to help grow their children and be strong for the world around. My mom’s parents left her to work abroad and she has similar feelings about it, then her youngest brother had to fly to them… when I didn’t know better I’d want her to understand, love, and forgive but it didn’t help as much… it just brought up inner child stuff
so it’s better not to interfere and just the let the field work on these parts …