Who really knows what is good and what is bad?
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indeed.
Reminds me of this line from Gurbani (a sacred scripture)ā¦
Ham nahi cha(n)ge, bura nahi koe |
I am not good, no one is bad
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i really love this! No wonder why your name is Eternal Heart
I mean not for one to answer, just simply contemplate on
Your statement really made my day; you helped give me a rather important reassessing moment.
We get so engrossed in such minuet things we loose sight of what really is, on what we should really focus on
Thanks
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The name Eternal Heart is just to remind me of what I aspire to. Far from reaching it though.
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Itās a load of rubbish and just all ābro science. Busting a nut in to a woman is good but do it in to thin air and itās bad? These YouTubers lecturing about it have no evidence for the claims they make and just see dollar signs.
I used to know this Indian guy in my social circle who used to be pressurising and down my throat about me masturbating but in a weird way like this semen retention or NoFap ideology/cult is radicalising young men in to this brainwashing. You just sound zealot or those who shout āYouāll burn in hell fire!ā
To be honest I think masturbating is the best option right now anyways or just paying for it because approaching women in 2022 is a āno goā area for most men. Thereās a huge risk of false rape and sexual harassment charges that could cost you your job, land you with an unpayable fine or worse be sent to jail. The situation in Canada is even worse, itās literally like the worst country in the world to be born a man.
Iāve stopped approaching women since 2019 because Iāve had enough of it and just not worth the hassle it comes with it. Just a month ago on Saturday night I got dragged out of a club for trying to dance with a girl but was reported for sexual harassment. Approaching women is like a cold-calling sales job trying to sell shite broadbandā¦ itās a lot more soul destroying than watching X-rated videos like āCollege Kimberly and The Giant BBCā or āBack Doors to Brazilā. I assure you that this cleanses more demons than any āPump and Dumpā 
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i feel for you really!
in my reallity things are not so strict but simmilar because the folk here is extremely programmable and obedient.
i do too feel in a locked in state about women nowadays.
they seem distant and more so over timeā¦
the pain comes where every second woman flirt with you until you respondā¦ then you are the devil in the flesh.
and to be true none of them are really to blame of behaving so. in my eyes it is all the conditioning and enviromental poisoning, the agenda of the elite. and they obide by it. whether they have a choice?
these last weeks i have come to the conclusion they have no choice and feel they dont have one, they are happy so as it goes and have no motivation to feel the problem. total win for some. all the ladies are super content going to the mall and going to work. and this is the life for them and again speaking from observation they dont seem to suffer. we on the other hand ā¦wellā¦every man for himselfā¦?
but a piece of advice.
the streaming porn sites are polluted with negativityā¦ this also as the above is a factā¦please do try clearing your system after visiting them ā¦ it will do you good no matter in what you believe.
imagine you go for your needs in some very negative place and your need is so great that you can manage to ignore the negativity for your needs sake.
on this earth simply ignoring such immence negativity will not make you untouchable for it.
so we have Captins great work and i recommend you use the clearing audios for your own health.
as said you can take my opinion with trust no matter whether you feel it or notā¦ you can for example use the essence of burned sage for 3-4 loops. it is short and extremel effective, has health benefits also for the skin.
you are on this forum. this was the reason i allowed myself to give this advice.
take care!
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@TheAmbiguousSoldier @Sarumann33 The Enigma of the Black Martian Jing could help you,
in my opinion
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yes of course i forgot it. i use it
Yo man, while the MGTOW philosophy and similar have many valid points that the modern man needs to know for self-preservation, these are not the ultimate truth.
The ultimate truth is that you manifest your own reality according your beliefs. So if you believe that āall women are Xā and ābehave like Yā, then this will be exactly your personal reality and the type of women you manifest in your personal reality bubble.
The beliefs your are projecting out into the world will manifest as your reality and will be reflected back to you as those particular types of experiences.
I know this because Iāve been there in the past.
The solution is really to do some deep shadow work and change your deep core beliefs into what you want to manifest in your life. And what type of women you want to manifest in your life.
Most of the manosphere philosophies are dead-ends and circle-jerks ā at first they give you a few liberating and empowering pieces of information, but then trap you within their own, even deeper, cults!
Just another dead-end where the ego feels like it has won and āoutsmarted the evil society out thereā.
Fleeing into porn and masturbation is a flight and self-sabotage mechanism, where you ego makes you to not want to acknowledge that you actually manifest your own reality.
The ego always tries to trick you into searching for EXTERNAL causes to blame for your current experiences. But it is really yourself who manifests your personal experiences and encounters with women.
Watch the following video, then think about what I wrote again ā because other people and women will subconsciously PLAY FOR YOU exactly the ROLE that you subconsciously want them to play for you ā this is how the whole Matrix Role-Playing Game works (and as you will see, the whole matrix game simulator being all a big game is not just a big metaphor but how it actually works):
Also, this whole thread is against pornography, not against masturbation.
So please stop defending and justifying your drug (porn) by listing movie titles, because this is what all drug addicts do ā they defend their drug as if their lives depend on it.
And then, those who want to do nofap or semen retention for a longer time need to transmute that sexual energy, otherwise it wonāt work. This is the main reason most nofappers fail with this practise.
PS:
Also check out this post for more masculine healing:
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Nofap is cope, itās all mindset
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I hear shadow being mentioned all the time, Is their a gudie on how to get started?
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There is so much to say about this that I donāt even know where to start.
It is mostly about working on and healing these topics:
- Self Love and self esteem
- Everything repressed
- Trauma
- Your own dark and evil side
- Your own gender and the opposite gender
- Sexuality
- Making the unconscious conscious
- Self sabotage mechanisms
- Escape and flight mechanisms
- Finally facing the truth and facts
- Stop living lies
- A lot of ego dissolution (!)
- ā¦and much more
I recommend you check out YouTube and watch at least 20 videos on what Shadow Work is.
Be aware that at least half of the YouTubers will have no clue and just tell something that is not even mentioning the subconscious mind.
Then decide your own personal approach to it and accompany it with Sapien Medicine fields as a major supporting tools.
NFTs with connection Higher Self, Deities, Servitors, Arcturians, Angels etc. can also help a lot here.
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I did notice somthing with the ARC brain. And my beliefs about how i view myself.
so i will check a bunch out. But i have checked a few out before and they say what it is and nothing practical. I wanted to start angel see program. which I will check out now acutally.
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Watching porn and masturbating multiple times a day is a cope
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Ive decided porn is the worst thing for me and I have to obliterate it from my reality completely! i let go and stop with ease no need to force willpower. I want to change my identity fuuu!!
If your addicted than itās a problem
Nofap and semen retention does not help with anything at least for me
To each their own.
I personally have noticed quite a significant positive difference when retaining for a long period of time, versus PMOing on a regular basis.
I think even if you masturbate, porn should be avoided regardless. Itās free for a reason.
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Addiction to porn is not good, guys thinking nofap and no pmo will put a end to all their struggles and make them pull women is the ultimate cope
But I agree with you
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For sure. You need to do work on yourself a little a bit. If you look like a slob, not masturbating isnāt going to make you Austin Powers.
I will say though, when I go 30+ days of no porn, no masturbation, no lustful thinking e.t.c., I have noticed increased personal magnetism, and attention from the opposite sex. And other weird occurences beyond that. I do believe there is something to it that draws people in.
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No difference to me, I get attraction on nofap and on pmo really does not make a difference to me at least.
One thing is, I really donāt care at the same time if someone is attracted to me or not, im more nonchalant
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