Meditate. Meditate. Meditate. While raising your vibration, your ego will become more aggressive and push hard to maintain its control over your consciousness. It’s relatively easy for it to do so if you don’t observe your mind objectively. Your ego has had a hold on your consciousness for your entire life and it will boa constrict you with ease if you don’t learn to silence it.
If you just wear the item and wait for your mind to become free, it will take a much longer time for the detachment to occur.
Also some things of note… eating meat will slow down the raising of your vibration (you can still raise your vibration with meat, just will be slowed down a little more). Substances like alcohol are low vibrational. Drug addictions, sex addictions, self hatred, hatred of others and all those kinds of things keep your vibration low. When you have the ascension tag, you will be forced to deal with these things. If you don’t, you’ll remain low.