What would you do regarding this asshole?

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#1

So something I cant really believe just happened.

I was in supermarket, and the girl who works there said that few minutes before me a guy had a bill of, lets say 4.25$. And he gave her 4 dollars, while holding 1 more dollar in hand, and she said “Another 25 cents” and he was like “I dont have anything else”, while visibly holding 1 more dollar in the end.

It took me a few second to understand what really happened, and that he was basically acting “all mighty” just to save 0.25 cents. Lol what an pathetic loser you must be to steal from a nice girl that works 9-10 hours shift just to make basic salary. (These 0.25 cents are written off her paycheck)

She even said she was never in loss until now

So I gave a girl a tip of like 1.2$ or something like that. She was very happy.

But I came home, and had to listen to clear Aura field, because it pissed me off that assholes like this guy exist. Not sure what would I done if I came 2 minutes earlier, probably slapped him unconscious, this loser was probably like 18 or around that age. But he was well gone when I got there.

How assholes like this dont get beaten more often to learn the lesson? I am not sure why it bothers me so much, but I had to vent out here, what do you guys think?

Did I do the right thing? What would you do? Do you get the urge to beat assholes like this? Am I at fault here because I really want to slap him around to teach him a lesson? Or should I ask myself “What would Jesus do?” lol.

(Sorry for bringing negative energy with this post on forum, but this is the only place I feel like it would be useful to post this and get real insights, cause many of members here are more experienced and enlightened etc)

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#2

You are good hearted and kind honest guy :heart:

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#3

Recently i found gold road side, 170g 11k $ approx

I’m not rich I’m badly in need of money even though I gave to orphan kids.

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#4

Thank you my friend, but what is the solution here? :slight_smile:

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#5

We can’t change the world…

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#6

Not good as I believe

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#7

Punishment with love and hugs

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#8

I think you solved it.
Some people just haven’t figured it out yet and if you are a bit more aware, you can intervene as a positive force

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#9

Yea I did something good, but how to deal with me wanting to beat the guy I dont even know?

Or is that a normal reaction everyone has no matter how advanced they are in their own journey? How not to feel bad after some assholes do something so inhumane?

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#10

It’s likely that you have an aspect inside of you that you want to beat. As within so without.

Or as Sammy just mentioned in the webinar: we are all god. You. Him. So if you want to beat him, you want to beat god. You’re beating yourself.

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#11

Usually this type of foolish persons are not scared of confrontations, they welcome it, so that’s why they don’t get beaten, often.

Also, I’m thinking _ why did he do it?

Is it possible that he has a huge problem and he needed that dollar, maybe someone dear is sick (although it would not be right for him, but still, more understandable)?

Or maybe he’s just an asshole…
In the end, you have to accept that this world is full of injustice
And assholes,
Actually many are Bigger Assholes than that guy,
You never know, if you don’t find them or if you don’t have to deal directly with scum type individuals.

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#12


Positive force - Just show him such muscles or attitude,
I’m sure such positive force will change the guy or at least it will scare him lol.

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#13

Whaaa?

I would have kept the money or the gold…

Anyway, you did the noble thing.

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#14

Thank you

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#15

You did what I would have done giving her the tip, because this is a situation that also sparks an internal rage in me as I don’t tolerate injustices.

So in my understanding that urge of you to beat the guy is something that, although violent, it’s not inappropriate or crazy. It’s shows that you have a good heart.

Although we are all god as an extension of all that is, we can not forget that that does not mean accept passively the non redeemed part of others.

Ive dealt of all kinds of shitty behaviors on my business during the years. I started as a very pure hearted person (which I still am) and naive to some point. Some rats did very unfair things to me similar to that one. I’ve had to learn the hard way but now no one challenges me that way anymore as my posture and know how does not allow it.

What I am trying to say is that this kind of bad people will always exist, it’s the evil that exists in the world. People who go out in bad faith, people who mislead on purpose etc. But if we can make it better for someone who is struggling with that situation as you did it is a good thing. I myself now do that for others…and I notice that my mere presence makes bullies like that refrain in their behavior. I had many examples. It is as if they don’t dare to act wrong with waiters, cashiers etc in my presence.

I even pointed that out in my first review for General of the Legends.

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#16

But friend that doesnt make any sense.

I mean I get the premise that if I feel loved, and if I love myself, that I will attract people around me that love me. As within so without.

But if I go to take a walk in the city, surely out of thousands of people there will be some good and some assholes. Its not my fault or something within me that made me see this asshole? Its just happened, because there are good and bad people in this world.
Also, in this case god is simply a human, because we both being gods doesn’t change the situation at all really. We are still in human bodies, so we might as well be trees, if he is an asshole tree I would still slap him till his roots fall off lol

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#17

Well, even better, one day he will welcome a beating that will humble him.

And look bro, I could understand if it was a dollar, you could get a coffee with a dollar, or buy something to eat. But he saved 0.25$, you cant buy anything with that, not even pack of gums, or small chocolate bar.

He probably does this many times, to try and save money to have for coffees or beer or whatever LOL

Such a jerk really

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#18

I believe this is bast answer so far honestly :slight_smile:

But how to deal with these people in long run? They will exist, surely sometimes in life I will occur an asshole, I dont usually listen to Repel Negative Energy all the time before I go out of my house, only if I go for long time so I dont get drained by energies…

But besides that field, anything we can do manually? Meditation would probably help, but how much?

Also, is it sometimes worth to beat a few guys up so you get reputation of being a guy that doesnt take shit from nobody? I guess not, my friend beat half the city here, people dont mess with him at all, but he is in debt cause of legal fees, and made a few enemies along the way. And I am not type of person that want to carry a gun with me just in case some of these guys that got beaten come back for revange, maybe with additional support. So I guess its not worth it, your opinion on this?

So basically, how to best deal with this situation, so I dont have rage when I get home, but to also not have negative consequences later on?

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#19

So what I found odd about this interaction was, she works there she’s the clerk. As the clerk it’s your job to make sure people don’t do this. Even if she was completely helpless, she could call the manager. That’s what you do, you get customers like this and you call the manager or security. If she owns the place, having a plan B for these scenarios could have been thought about earlier.

So I don’t know about other scenarios but in this one it seems like you could have been taking on too much responsibility for this other person.

Which leads me to wonder, is there a pattern in your life where you’ve been expected to take on responsibilities of other people when really, they could have or should have been taking care of it themselves?

Not saying anything definitively so don’t @me lol. But it seems like it might be like this

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#20

Which part specifically?

No, its not a fault. It is more like a filter you see the world with.
The only one in control is you. Whatever you see outside of yourself (good/bad people), you cannot change them. However you can control how you react to them. In this way you can filter out unwanted things.

In your case, you saw this bad person, and you resolved the situation in your way. Yet you still harbor the resentment towards him. There is a forgiveness you seek to let him and the situation just be. It is detachment, but not because you don’t care, but more along the lines of you caring fully.

Well, you could try asking yourself what would god do?

That will be tricky to find, I suppose

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