What would you do regarding this asshole?

Exactly bro, its ridiculous that people even think stuff like that, I think they are just trolling or hate women or something like that

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You do understand that entire bible is misunderstood by many people today? One of the people who best understood it is Neville Goddard.

Also, I didnt felt urge to beat up a guy who saved 25 cents.

I wanted to beat a guy that was an asshole, a guy that scammed a girl at the counter, a liar, a thief and a guy who deserve beating to learn a lesson the hard way because he pray on weak people.

Now, please stop trying to make girl look guilty, stop saying ridiculous stuff like that she scammed me for 25 cents, stop quoting bible to me, especially when you yourself dont know the right meaning of that book, and stop making it seem like its my fault somehow.

I posted this thread to see different opinions, if I didnt think I was at least a little bit wrong that I get mad at that, I wouldnt posted here trying to get answers from similar people, that can help me improve myself.

Even the fact I had to explain myself to you two for accusing the girl, while I told you a few times she is not guilty at all, is ridiculous to me. Do you hate women so much? Are you too much on news and social media watching west propaganda?

TLDR: Stop acting like that if you wont give helpful advice.

John 8/ 6-7

This they said, tempting him, that they might have to accuse him. But Jesus stooped down, and with his finger wrote on the ground, as though he heard them not.
So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.

You are at fault for getting mad.

Everyone is giving you what they see as helpful advice, I did myself, you ignored it.

Btw, you brought the bible into the discussion when you mentioned Jesus in the original post.

Also, how do you know that “Neville Goddard” best understood the bible… based on what? you liking his seminars?

Within limits, it would seem.

Perhaps because you’re gullible?

Humans in general can be very deceptive, it has nothing to do with men or women. Isn’t western propaganda pro-women?? I’m confused.

Can we just have a beer and act like men away from all this emotional incontinence? :beers:

For those wondering about the post just above.

ever heard this one?

I told you to stop quoting the bible, to stop insulting me, and to stop judging me. You did it all again in this post, which i am not going to read fully btw. In the future, if you dont have something useful to post, please dont post at all, at least not on my threads.

Good luck in your drinking buddy :)

Time.

So you’ve chosen the hard path…

Well, your free will, not my place to intervene.

Good luck.

Seriously, how would you have any idea about which path I chosen? LOL

Please stop posting :slight_smile:

This is your thread, not your forum.

You have no say over who posts in it, or what they post.

It’s funny to me you mentioned the UK and US in a pejorative way, when - most obviously - where you live manners are not part of one’s upbringing.

If you cannot withstand the pressure of opposing opinions or ideas (not that mine necessarily are), find a corner to cry about it somewhere.

I can easily move from tough love to malevolence, if you feel so inclined to push me to it.

I told you to stop spamming bro, kindly respect that :slight_smile:

Good luck with your alcoholism :slight_smile:

Good luck :slightly_smiling_face:

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I understand your fury.
You already helped the woman and the cheating man got exposed.
Your did your job so now I would let it go

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I would have given her a quarter and collapsed the guy’s karma on the spot.

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As true as this is, dream has helped me realize that for most people that even believe this, oneness is but an abstract thought. It isn’t actually real or tangible to them. So it isn’t good advice to give to people still in samsara. That perspective of oneness is one that is realized through experience and it is truly only then, that one can grasp this level of understanding and apply it. It is not for everyone along their individual paths. Most will not come to realize such things in this lifetime and that is okay.

That’s not to say it isn’t true. Or that you and I are wrong for expressing it. It just isn’t something that just anyone can just understand and then apply to their perspective. So as advice, it falls rather short.

I acknowledged I’ve done this quite a lot in the past. Especially in my speaking of dealing with entities… The whole concept of accepting entities and then transmuting them with love is just not something most people are capable of even trying. It requires a complete shift in perspective that doesn’t just happen off of ‘ok this guy said this works, so I’m gonna try it.’ It requires belief and belief comes through experience which happens through growth.

I only share what I know of course. It’s just as I continually do so, I am realizing more and more that what I share is so far removed from most people’s perspectives, that it doesn’t even translate conceptually. And it reminds me many years ago when I started along the path and I read about oneness and actually believed in it right away. It made sense to me. But, it was such an abstract thought to me, that I would quickly still fall into hating and judging others. Now, I don’t even know how to do that.

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As for advice for the asshole… all I can say is that the rage derives from holding onto what happened and rejecting that it happened in the first place. So as long as you reject things, they will trigger you. They will haunt you. They will rage you. What you reject ends up gaining control over you and you lose control. It is best to accept what happens and allow the universe to be. People that do lowly things like that, attract lowly things into their life. The energy they project, burns them. As dream said the other day, they will have to face the entropy they project one way or another.

If you want revenge, you stoop to low levels and end up drifting into those low levels. In those low levels, you exchange that low level energy and tend to attract more of that low energy.

Not to say that people shouldn’t be punished or you shouldn’t defend yourself. It’s just when you seek to hurt others even if they hurt someone you know or you, you engage with fire that will burn you in the process. This reminds me of something…

I always bring up the story but it was a pivotal moment in my life with many lessons. But when I got robbed for my chain as a kid, it made me feel weak. And I hate to feel weak. It messed me up hard and I wanted nothing but revenge. I wanted that kid dead even though he was with a group, I will never forget the guy’s face who snatched it. I felt he had to be punished and shouldn’t just get away with what he did.

Thing was, I used to hang with people who were about that life. And one day I was walking with a friend of mine who was huge. I saw the guy in the distance by himself as we were walking and I told him, let’s jump him. I had a pocket knife on me as well. My thoughts were either I just jump him and then his crew will find me and stab me as they always would hang out in front of my high school or I kill him and eliminate that possibility.

The more I walked forward, the more I realized this just isn’t who I am. The moment I do this, I become the kind of person I hate. I ended up telling my friend to forget it and we walked away.

It took me a long time to forgive him but I had to. The hate I had for him had consumed me from within and made me weak. Hate is a poisonous energy that consumes you. Without forgiveness, there is no letting go. There is no moving forward into more positive things and a better life.

So I know that this isn’t the answer you seek. But acceptance is the only way to reduce rage. The moment you do negative things in reaction to negative things, is the moment you become wrapped up in negativity and invite more negativity.

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:100: Exactly. He was guilty of robbing you, but without you being in these circles, shit like that doesn´t just happen.

My father used to say, if you hang around with idiots, idiotic shit will happen to you at some point.
And he was damn right about it.

Ofc it´s not that simple if you are a child who grows up like that, but you´ve made a decision later, to be true to your authentic self, despite how hard it was.

Amazing post as usual Sammy.

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Beautiful. I tried to explain to OP in an abridged way but he simply refused to acknowledge the statement and went on to burn a huge strawman each time I attempted to explain it from a different angle…

I tried to give him a small scare in a last attempt to maybe nudge him a bit awake about how vulnerable he was… no dice.

I know of no better way to help someone than the Socratic method… help them see flaws in their logic. I wasn’t being argumentative for play… sadly, he’s immune even to this rudimentary approach …

I hope, knowing full well the hardships of the path his overall disposition will send him, that he at least genuinely sees the wisdom in your words, if not mine.

It isn’t for you or I to convince him. All any of us can do is offer our wisdom but the moment we try to force our advice, the wisdom gets lost in translation. Don’t get attached to whether people understand what you have to tell them. It may ring as wrong to them at the moment and no amount of convincing will make them think otherwise.

Arguing just makes someone reject the wisdom more out of pride. This is counterproductive because often, people might read something and not understand it one day but then understand it in another. But now, his ego may reject understanding it because the wisdom came from you.

It’s just in reading your post and putting myself in his perspective, it would piss me off even more as it seems you’re saying things like ‘I tried to help him but he’s unhelpable.’

Anyways, this isn’t an attack on you. Just saying it’s best to detach from people you try to help. Otherwise these kinds of interactions can occur.

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Yes. It was foolish and unwise. I suppose I was “asleep”… Amusing, I suddenly feel a lot more “lucid”. Thank you.

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I agree, I know I need to react differently, but just posting on this thread stuff like “you are wrong” is not going to help me, its just going to trigger my ego, or anybody elses.

I do believe I did the right thing here, but I just want to be able to react differentlz for situations like these in the future. That was the reason I posted this.

Anyway, I didnt care about it the next day, once I listened to aura cleaning field, that OG surely helps after some bad energies from other people.

Thank you all for giving me useful advice I will try to follow in the future.

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