What would you do regarding this asshole?

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#42

I have so many dark thoughts about bad people that hurt others .I don’t necessary feel bad about it.

I haven’t hurt any one . Sińce im more aware i try to deal with this kind of people enegeticly or make them realise how awful they act.

I have a person in my life right now that i really dispise. An awful human being that treat other people like shit.

I would love to punch him in his stupid ass face but its would be more beneficial if he had some kind of realisation what he does to people and feel it.

I play some fields in this intesion.

When time is right i will tell him some of my thoughts about his behavior.

I know i may sound conrtoversial but i’m just honest. With you and myself. I have agressive thoughts. Im jus a human …

Im a good person but not going to pretend i don’t have a dark side. I guess we all do.

What i mean is that don’t be scared of your dark thoughts. Deal with them .

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#43

He is already punishing himself (based on our understanding of what that means - presumably) without his own awareness. Let it go. He exists for a reason, the world demands it. Try more surrender and less control.

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#44

Im over my control freak phase.now its really mild comparing to what i used to be.:wink:

Still… I’m not good in letting go .
And probably never will be. I will seek some justice . That’s just how i am .

Man is causing harm to massive number of people because of position he holds professionally. I know him personaly. And i will have oportunity soon tob look him in the eyes and tell what i think.

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#45

What are you even talking about? Her boyfriend is violent and is around a corner wanting to fight? She manipulated me? Aura field is must because of her? LOL

Something is not right in your way of thinking my friend, and I dont mean to insult you, but read your comment, what you are saying sounds crazy.

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#46

A girl you dont know tells you a story and you give her money in return.
There are human beings that tell stories all the time because they have good people skills and know how certain people will react.

Now lets even imagine “that guy” just left the store, would you have followed him and beaten him without any proof of the girls story?

I do not think what Drift said is totally unlikely.

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#47

She works in the store and I often go there, not first time I saw here. I know workers there, they are very honest, even running to buyers who left to return the money, its a nice store, this is not USA or UK cities where everything is mess and you have to guard your stores with firearms lol

Also I have great judgement of people, trust me, this girl was in shocked because it happened minute or two before me, I saw 2 guys when I was entering but didnt pay attention. There is literally 0% that she tried to scam me over 25 cents lol
She refused the money, scammers dont do that.

For godsake guys just trust my judgment of the situation that this is 100% about the guy, girl is not in fault here.

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#48

You know the people at the store, in the store, where you are the client and they are intended to serve you or they’d get in trouble… who these people are out of the work setting is -probably- beyond your ability to discern.

Many people tell me that my ability to judge their character is impeccable, yet I would never make such a wild claim myself. Fact is, you can never tell who the person you’re interacting with actually is, no matter how good - you think - you are at judging others.

Virtue is a very cunning trap, be weary of it… the truth is, you’re one cascade of events away from being exactly like, if not worse, than that guy.

What’s next? you’re going to fight a lion to save a zebra?

There’s a reason the adage - no good deed goes unpunished - exists.

#49

Why is everyone over analyzing the situation and thinking this is white-knighting. If you worked at retail, this is a common thing with asshole customers making employee’s lives harder.

Reading some of y’all’s comment makes it sound like the employee is manipulating him (25 cents) lol I’m done. I don’t know what to say.

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#50

Luke 8:46
“And Jesus said, Somebody hath touched me: for I perceive that virtue is gone out of me.”

OP felt the urge to beat up a guy who thought saving 25 cents is a big deal.

#51

Exactly bro, its ridiculous that people even think stuff like that, I think they are just trolling or hate women or something like that

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#52

You do understand that entire bible is misunderstood by many people today? One of the people who best understood it is Neville Goddard.

Also, I didnt felt urge to beat up a guy who saved 25 cents.

I wanted to beat a guy that was an asshole, a guy that scammed a girl at the counter, a liar, a thief and a guy who deserve beating to learn a lesson the hard way because he pray on weak people.

Now, please stop trying to make girl look guilty, stop saying ridiculous stuff like that she scammed me for 25 cents, stop quoting bible to me, especially when you yourself dont know the right meaning of that book, and stop making it seem like its my fault somehow.

I posted this thread to see different opinions, if I didnt think I was at least a little bit wrong that I get mad at that, I wouldnt posted here trying to get answers from similar people, that can help me improve myself.

Even the fact I had to explain myself to you two for accusing the girl, while I told you a few times she is not guilty at all, is ridiculous to me. Do you hate women so much? Are you too much on news and social media watching west propaganda?

TLDR: Stop acting like that if you wont give helpful advice.

#53

John 8/ 6-7

This they said, tempting him, that they might have to accuse him. But Jesus stooped down, and with his finger wrote on the ground, as though he heard them not.
So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.

You are at fault for getting mad.

Everyone is giving you what they see as helpful advice, I did myself, you ignored it.

Btw, you brought the bible into the discussion when you mentioned Jesus in the original post.

Also, how do you know that “Neville Goddard” best understood the bible… based on what? you liking his seminars?

Within limits, it would seem.

Perhaps because you’re gullible?

Humans in general can be very deceptive, it has nothing to do with men or women. Isn’t western propaganda pro-women?? I’m confused.

Can we just have a beer and act like men away from all this emotional incontinence? :beers:

#54

For those wondering about the post just above.

#55

ever heard this one?

#56

I told you to stop quoting the bible, to stop insulting me, and to stop judging me. You did it all again in this post, which i am not going to read fully btw. In the future, if you dont have something useful to post, please dont post at all, at least not on my threads.

Good luck in your drinking buddy :)

#57

Time.

So you’ve chosen the hard path…

Well, your free will, not my place to intervene.

Good luck.

#58

Seriously, how would you have any idea about which path I chosen? LOL

Please stop posting :slight_smile:

#59

This is your thread, not your forum.

You have no say over who posts in it, or what they post.

It’s funny to me you mentioned the UK and US in a pejorative way, when - most obviously - where you live manners are not part of one’s upbringing.

If you cannot withstand the pressure of opposing opinions or ideas (not that mine necessarily are), find a corner to cry about it somewhere.

I can easily move from tough love to malevolence, if you feel so inclined to push me to it.

#60

I told you to stop spamming bro, kindly respect that :slight_smile:

Good luck with your alcoholism :slight_smile:

#61

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Good luck :slightly_smiling_face:

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