About LOVE - Dating & Relationships ❤️

The answer might be my heart chakra crystals and the Adonis NFT that I recently started meditating on. Since this is not a topic about NFT, I will spam this page, sorry hahahehe😁 .

that’s right, I know I’m starting to change, when I see and watch some of the girls, I feel like crying

Yes, and I feel that I have enough love and affection even for such people. Infinite compassion… It’s not their fault… Everyone deserves love…

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Well, you summarized it like a physics formula. This is how it happens.

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No problem.

Thats what it is for. To share and discuss all about, we can learn from everybody’s knowledge and or experiences.

Its great, you are getting more sensitive and your heart chakra is widening, expanding, its normal to feel love for any and everyone, its part of the process, romantic love will always be the main trigger to unleash and or learn deep real love for others non romantically and for ourselves, romantic love reaches the core of the heart and from there it blossoms in all other forms.

Take one day at a time, there is so much we learn about us, our childhood, family, society etc when the heart is open, its a whole world in itself that has been kept until the moment it opens.
As much as it shows us how deep we can love it also shows us what holes we have, what love we didnt get or havent gotten etc so we rapidly want to expand it and give it freely trying to fill the gaps and we think we just want to give, but in reality we want others to fill it for us because if there are holes it means those parts of the heart never got that love before and once we know how good it feels we give it expecting to receive it back.

And when we dont receive it back the holes feel heavier, more empty and it hurts so we continue looking to get the love we give but it only works temporarily, the minute someone stops, the heart sinks where the holes are.

And it continues until we, fill them ourselves. And when someone comes and loves us, the heart radiates bigger yes but when that person stops loving us, the heart remains the same. Because it fills and refills with our own self-love. Thats the one we have to protect.

I agree, and we could certainly inspire them love, but until they learn on their own how to love themselves they will suck the love of others and crush it when it overwhelms them because they dont know how to love, and unless you are strong to see their ways and not let them engage you in their game, you will always fall prey.

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As I understood what you said, I felt like I was experiencing the “Smart Mental Coach” feature mentioned in the NFT description. I am grateful for your enlightening warnings and guidance about love relationships. I will probably read it many times😁

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You are very welcome!!

And keep sharing with us whatever you feel comfortable with

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Thats how you heal a broken heart. Focus on the mind first. Strengthen it and the heart can heal, maybe not as fast but “easier” for sure.

Best field to assist the process, the hardest part, the first days after a break up

Pure Magnetic Heart Coherence

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When the time is not right, or the person is not right, or the dimension is not right or wait wot?

Something is just not right lol

Oh… daaang.

:roll_eyes:


AND SO, INSTEAD

WE CAN ALWAYS SEND A MESSAGE TO THE ONE IN THE FUTURE :

Or woman… for the ones interested in women

:blush: and continue working on ourselves, we gotta be ready right? :bug::butterfly:

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How do you forgive people that hurt you in love lol
Where do you find the strength to give people another chance and how do you move on

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I think there is a difference between forgiveness and giving another chance.

I can genuinelly let go of all the grudges and wish you all the best for your life and at the same time cut all the cords and burn all the bridges and escort you away from my reality bubble, but I did indeed forgive you!

Holding grudges steals an absurd quantity of mental power

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What about when you wish to keep the person in your life? But it’s just a certain way of acting that hurt you

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What about…remembering or reframing your power and the power of choice when you feel that way? When those nagging thoughts and feelings arise , maybe just remembering that you have autonomy over the situation and you made a decision to try again and to see where that decision takes you. You can always change your decision again when new information comes along. But maybe it could be about trusting yourself.

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Is it that important? In a relationship, values and ideals tend to align over time. I mean those that weren’t since the begining.

But if they don’t, and it is something that important to you, that is a deal breaker.

On the other hand, people always have good reason for their behaviour. Not changing something even for a loved one, is a give away that they probably have been forced to act the opposite way in the past. Which means, they are asserting their freedom.

Since it is a freedom issue, pushing it isn’t going to help. You can remind them about this, but since it isn’t something they don’t want to face or release fully but need to feel in control of, they may take a while or not try to fix it at all.

But really, pushing it never works. Having them talk and express how they feel about it while showing understanding (instead of just disagreement and expecting them to change) can be transformative enough.

This is a reminder to myself, don’t take anything personal.

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Thank you for that, also a reminder to myself, just thinking aloud :

Sometimes when people live through others’ expectations, experiences and accomplishments instead of their own…

they learn in their relationships that when they try to hold onto someone very tightly, it tends to push them away. Control is not the same as connection.

When loving someone fully, surely you want the best for them. That involves helping them create a strong foundation (roots) from which to understand their own strengths, values, potential, and resilience.

This sincerity creates a lasting bond.
The more we connect, the less we correct.

Life is dynamic. Everyone is on their own journey.
Be grateful for the time you have together. And let them chart their path.
True love and connection always remain…

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Dates…

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I havent seen that movie!!

And i already know ill cry lol

i frikking love that song, so on point!

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Watch that movie and don’t be afraid to cry, dear Lunita! :smiley:

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Hahahah

Me afraid of crying?

I cry thinking i might cry :joy: my tears are always ready damn sensitivity in my eyes, i think i need to have them checked :stuck_out_tongue:

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you are such a force of nature… :laughing:

however, returning to the image you published and which I reposted, it says many true things; sometimes there are these very deep connections that live and must remain in other timelines, which resist the blows of the Dream fields :wink: but which have some reason to exist and when you observe them they seem so close in time despite being tens of years apart.
This topic is very interesting and surprising at the same time

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They be pushing hard still lol

One day we will be coming across other “us” evrerywhere…

Going to the supermarket:

“Oh look at me over there, what ugly outfit i chose for that life of mine…better i hide, cant take more or her transcendental questions”

“Hi, neighbor… no please DONT date that person, his other him is trying to date me in this one and i dont want to, he keeps saying i make him nostalgic for something he doesnt know why yet”

Etc

:laughing:

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