I am trying really really hard, ngl, salt cleanse, mana circuits, ego diss, energy enviroment accumulator and meditating really hard, and talking to her everyday but IG, she just does not wanna connect, I think this was not made for me, I will have to let it go.
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sometimes if u let go of wanting it badly, it might just happen… try putting it away for a few days and come back to it.
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If you hold onto the tip of the wick, how can you expect the candle to flicker its light 
Don’t be so hard on yourself
Anyways, if we release expectations, an infinite amount of possibilities- magic included- will abound !
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I understand what you are saying but how shall I keep my faith when I am seeing no response at all, not even tiniest bit?
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Do not let doubt taint your faith or heart; miracles dwell in the unknown.
Moreover,
Faith does not deter even in the eye of the storm,
if it does,
it was never faith to begin with.
Faith is like the tree that stays upright even when its branches part from it during the storm:
Be like the tree
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okay
But she is a being, with her own ideas and opinions
did you try talking to her / with her.
The usual offerings or anything?
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rose oil, rose candles, rose seeds, banana oil for some reason haha. Some bay leaves just cause, lol. She is selective but wonderful and very accepting of most things.
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Thank you for your reply, yesssir, I spoke to her, I am speaking to her like she is present with me, I wish her good morning, good night, talk to her about my day and wish her have a good day, I asked her if she needs me to do something for her, or if she can guide me with something but still nothing.
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I checked with her, if she would like me to donate something on her behalf or she would like something.
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And cue Violet suddenly dying of worry that Aphrodite dislikes me
welp
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Can someone please explain to me what’s the deal with the physical offerings?
Is this all about intent and showing gratitude?
I would assumme that astral deities would not care about some candles made of physical matter etc.?
What can we physical beings really offer to these deities besides attention, gratitude and love?
With Aphrodite I have a very similar feeling as with Nyx:
One just has to be pure hearted, open hearted and 100% honest.
These beings are able to read all of our thoughts and see our true intentions.
So just being honest and and having real gratitude in your heart is what I believe is the key.
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Connections with the deities are personal, and therefore very individual. Also they can work with us without our knowing that it is happening. It is an alchemical relationship. Give it time and know that all of your time and attention to her is not going to waste, nor is your sense of lack of response on her part indication that she is not responding to you. She is Goddess of Love and a representative of unconditional cosmic energies. You are loved. Perhaps acknowledging that you and she are one and knowing that it is so will assist you to step into her world.
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this makes a lot of sense, I will try talking to her now and meditate with her.
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In addition to this NFT (I absolutely adore her, btw), I have an Aphrodite t-shirt and added her image to a tag.
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so I can just download the NFT (image) from my phatom wallet, get it printed on the object and it will work?
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I know that she is melding with you. Love is patient, love is kind . . .
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what you are saying is really hitting me hard, I will follow what you have mentioned and give my all and try again with my whole power, I hope mother aphrodite blesses me!
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She is the goddess of Love and Beauty.
U can ask for her blessings, then thank her.
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You might have more faith in the process. I am not saying you need to implement all the stuff I did, just that I love her vibration so much that I wanted to surround myself with it. Your journey with her is your journey. Just give it time and keep open to perceiving her presence in different ways. Since we are one (including with the deities) all love is self-love.
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This might be one aspect but another one is also energywork related which i would see the main aspect of it.
(doing the effort also can be seen as gratitude instead just having nice feeling or words without doing the work)
Because the vibration between you and the deity is so huge and different certain objects are used to create a sort of “bridge” between you and the deity so one is able to assimilate it further on a deeper level.
(meaning, the deity infuse the object with his/her energy to create a stronger bond)
I can feel it pretty good when i offer some fruit on my idol in the room even when it’s just for 20-30min. If i put for example for 1-2days a banana in front of him and eat it i got a pretty strong high that i even sense 2-3hrs+ afterwards.
And sometimes people just have a “supermarket mentality” that just jump over one deity to an another one so maybe certain effort has to be performed to see how serious you are about the connection and friendship?!
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