Ok. I’m gonna use this opportunity to give a fun analogy that’s been brewing for a while…
Firstly, one has to do their best to realize everything is interconnected on levels far beyond what the human mind can currently “figure out”. So focusing on one aspect over another is going to cause one to get "confused’… it’s both/and and often neither/nor and often BOTH of those
First, as I’ve mentioned before, one’s proper Zodiac isn’t just “Leo”… it goes into 4th, and 5th, etc houses and meaning where your Sun sign and moon sign and planetary signs are located and how those triangulate with each other in the various astrological signs.
I’m not going to get into that too deeply here cause … (reasons)
In other words, one can have a Sun Sign (the common first level) in Leo and have SOME of those attributes during particular circumstances.
Now, let’s take a common attribute like being hard working or stubborn.
Those are attributes everyone would have …during particular circumstances.
(That’s why simple Zodiac readings could and would apply to anyone…as they’re simply too vague)
So now let’s get to the fun analogy.
Your Higher Self between incarnations is deciding on which things it would like to work on in the next life. If one is like most humans, there are literally 100s of things to work on, but let’s say, it really wants to focus on 3 major things.
So imagine your Higher Self rolls out 3 different player character(personality traits/gifts/talents/lessons) for the next lifetime.
- Player character 1 will have high charisma, poor initial wealth, modest athleticism, and good work ethic and will mostly be learning karmic lessons around wealth.
- Player Character 2 will have modest charisma, modest wealth, high athleticism and horrible work ethic. And will mostly be learning karmic lessons around being self-disciplined.
- Player Character 3 will have poor charisma, high initial wealth, modest athleticism and poor work ethic. And they will mostly be learning karmic lessons around their relationships with family.
Now onto all of that, there are only 6 suitable parents that are also close to one’s original soul group or you have associated with before.
Remember, everyone’s else Higher Self is also participating in this process.
So, of those 6 suitable parent choices only 4 would fit Player Character option 1 and only 1 each for the other 2.
Eventually the “stars align” (pun intended) and there’s a pregnancy available in Family number 5 which also fits Player Character 2.
You would then be born at the time that aligns with the zodiac traits of “modest charisma, modest wealth, high atheleticism and horrible work ethic.”
lol see?
This is a very rough metaphor for what happens, but the point that should be understood is that there are literally millions of factors involved.
Yes, some are weighted more than others, but our minds on Earth can’t factor all this into the equation.
The Higher Selves of all parties involved absolutely can “do the math” and figure out the alignments of how the celestial bodies will affect this or that and how that will give one the karmic “guidelines” to replicate the “needed personality” to learn whatever karmic lessons need to be learned.