One doesn’t hit on the same girl “many times” to be turned down, walk away and then be brought back to being her friend to then talk about self-respect. There’s so much to unpack here.
But hey man, at least I tried.
Take care of yourself
I’ll move back to the Brain Guild section
Just remember you have a value, they have a value.
If you are ok with providing her your value, helping her, making her feel safe, bringing her stability, you’re still young, I won’t mention money, but time and energy and lust.
And at the same time she isn’t giving you any real tangible value (because let’s face it, you don’t both get the same value out of talking).
That’s how simping works and it starts very small, it’s a long road to become an obvious simp. It’s an habit, a programming that grows over time. No one’s who is aware of that becomes a simp.
You internalize the mindset that it’s ok to provide without getting reciprocity from ladies. It will get wired in your brain.
That’s when self-respect comes into play. If you can just learn to walk away, that’s 50% of the levels unlocked.
And for your situation, understand that she doesn’t and will not respect you after what happened. You undervalued yourself and you showed that you didn’t have options. And you raised her self-worth leading to entitlement. I am worth more = I deserve more.
I stayed on it because it’s a global crisis at this point.
PS: The minute she gots her BF, he won’t like having you lurking around his woman, she’ll stop talking to you 100% of the time. Cause you know, she wants a man, just not you.
But don’t worry, she’ll need that self worth again when they break up, you’ll see her again.
You’re right, looking back and reanalyzing the situation I put myself in was stupid. Frankly speaking, she didn’t provide any essence of value to me. Thank you bro, appreciate you opening my mind.
I did not notice this until I read a comment here, but people have been really nice to me. Like wherever I go people been just nice and treat me respectfully, also they open up and tell me all about their life.
Update: Rejected the girl’s advances and she moved onto another man way too quick lol. I ain’t stressing, I been experiencing more lovely days with this NFT. I feel more self love for myself.
I am beginning to have a more open mind in expressing love for other people. I don’t mind hiding it.
Still haven’t found love after maybe having this field for over a couple weeks? I listen to the audio everyday and still no results. Am I doing something wrong? Just curious. Or is there a way to speed up the process? I listen to subconscious limits dissolver as well. However, it does make the people around me friendly. However, for finding a significant other it seems hard. :(
Treat it as a journey, work on loving yourself first go with the flow. Who knows? Maybe you’ll meet your love tommorrow, maybe it will happen over the course of months.
Remember, don’t have that mindset finding a significant is hard, maintain a manifest of abundance.