Next time you have this problem, come and find me. We’ll deal with it together :p
No seriously: as far as I could see until now, physical/aesthetic issues have generally been well received on this forum. Of course there will always be some remarks like “only inner beauty matters”, which is true to a big extent: for instance, I always fell in love with guys being the opposite of “my type” lol. Except one, but that was the most fake relationship of history :)))
You know how it is. That aside, there’s nothing wrong with aesthetic goals when using fields, etc. provided that it doesn’t suppress other qualities. What’s beauty, after all? A subjective whole.
So maybe the reactions that you saw were related to stuff becoming slightly obsessive or too superficial.
More on topic note: the music of this field is just… <3