Oh Aphrodite
Let me tell you a little extra about her so you can take full advantage because heckā¦ who doesnt like extra love right? (Which is the aspect of her illl talk about)
Aphrodite as said was (Is) the Goddess of love, sensuality, sexuality. She would have at her feet any God and any mortal while for her was āanother day in the officeā meaning, she wouldnāt really care the effect she would cause around.
She wouldnt care because she never did anything to embody love. She simply was love. She didnt need to attract love. She was love. She didnt try to be sensual. She was sensuality in itself. She didnt master sex to gain favors. She was sexuality in its full form.
And that is the lesson and the gift she can give you.
When connecting to her
When trying to ask her for help
When praying for her blessings
Dont ask her to help you get this or that persons attention or love
Dont ask her to bring you the ex you cant forget
Dont ask her to fix your partners negative ways so you guys can finally work
She wont help you with that.
But instead
Ask her to help you love YOURSELF fully deeply and unconditionally
Ask her to infuse you with confidence
Ask her to help you get rid of mental and emotional blockages in regards of SELF LOVE.
And offer her little gifts as a thank you.
Oh but what would those little gifts be?
Nope. Nothing for herā¦ :) remember she doesnt need love, or appreciation. She wants you to embrace her fully by loving and embracing yourself.
Gifts she appreciates:
Pamper yourself
Love your body
Be sensual with your own body like when you take a shower, when you put on your body lotion, when you shave etc feel your skin, love every cms on your body and say it, while you touch it, vibrate with love while embracing yourself.
Get that special bath soap that smells nice and can cost a little more than the regular one.
Get rid of old underwear
Dont wear just whatever worse the old tshirt and stained shorts to go to sleep no uh
Keep your bed clean, soft with crispy fresh sheets and fluffy pillows, yes even put drops of nice rose oil
Make your showers a whole beautiful ritual play soft music, literally romance yourself and dance alone
Keep rose petals in a bowl in your room
Get some Rose quartz to have in your bathroom, room and with you
Take moon baths
Pay attention to details (without becoming vein) about how you keep yourself.
Remember do this FOR YOU. Not to impress anybody.
Even if you are single. Even if you are not going out. Even if youve been for years with the same partner.
Keep sensuality and self love and appreciation all over you that every time you look at yourself in the mirror you sigh deeply and smile, admire your hair, feel its touch etc.
Go sit by the ocean and let the water and sand touch you like caressing the most soft warm skin. And its yours!!
I think you get the picture
Those are actually the gifts that she wants from you
When you fail to do that shed be like ugh rolling eyes i swear then shed laugh at you and walk away.
Wanna keep her by your side? Connect to her and again only focus on asking her to help you fully love yourself. And then start incorporating those changes i just mentioned, dont chase love, dont do things to impress othersā¦ just focus on loving yourself, enjoy who you are and watch love following you everywhere from everybody