I’m pretty sure I’m not the only one who speaks “normally” to her servitors
Actually, when I read about people’s experiences with theirs before creating my own, it never occured to me that they meant “conceptual communication” when they said they talked to their servitors. So I simply talked to mine like I would talk to anynone.
Now, how to perceive feedback from one’s servitor is a whole other problem. My guess is everyone has to find what works for him/her. Which is easier said than done
You say you are a little energy sensitive so I would suggest to build on how you feel energy. Well maybe that’s exactly what you did by asking your dragon to stimulate your left and right hands/arms. But maybe you usually feel energy differently ? Like, for me, it’s a sensation of my chest opening up with positive energies or closing down with negative energies that is the most noticeable. So that was my primary mode of communication.
If you feel things with some of Sapien’s fields or other energetic fields/practices/whatever, you could also show that to your dragon and see if he can recreate the same effect.
Or maybe put your hand in the fridge and under warm water to show him how cold and warm feel so that he could learn to replicate the feeling (no idea how long it would take, though ).
Or maybe take the path of synchronicities : ask your dragon to show you a number, or an image, or whatever you want, and see if it pops more often in your life. Okay, having a conversation this way would take dayyyys, but still, it’s a start.
Or maybe use cards, or runes or another divination method.
The key is to get creative and try things until you find something that works for you.
Also, pay attention to what you see, hear, feel : maybe your dragon is/will be trying to give you clues on what could help you understand him. Actually, you can also ask him to do that, to be sure. It can only help.
When you have found something that works, even a teeny tiny little bit, practice it as often as you can. Then, get creative once again and see how you can improve your method to have more complex and nuanced discussions.
Poke @zeropointpimpin and @Bre19, in case this might help you.