Fair enough. However, are you seeing how those two (only two) incidents are different? Can you notice that those were two different situations?
Great! (It really is.) Because you don’t really need to know what this could be and why. (I was asking my questions to rule out some things that it could be, which we’ve done, I t hink.)
And the reason why this is great is because you’re here on this forum. You can use fields like Subconcious limit dissolver (gumroad) vs Subconscious Limits Ver 2.0 (youtube), etc. to address what this could be and why, even when you don’t know.
I think that’s pretty great, don’t you?
You could also check out The Outlook Retrainer: Testimonials and New Perspectives: New Release, as well.
From the little you’ve told me so far, it sounds to me like it did resolve itself. You found another partner who could give you what your ex couldn’t. That is a resolution.
I heard you, which is why I’m sort of belaboring this point. (I’m not belaboring this point to badger you, I promise.)
From what little you’ve told me (which is plenty–I told you I don’t mean to pry!) that old situation really has nothing to do with this situation, other than any connections you choose to give it with your mind. (Don’t do that. 
) Back then, you had an ex who couldn’t give you sex in a way that you enjoyed. And if that’s not a reason to lose interest, I don’t know what is.
But that’s a different thing than what’s going on now. So, I wouldn’t be so quick to make connections or draw conclusions from that old experience of your distant past with this new, fresh experience which is still changing and becoming more for both of you.
Got it! You’ve received a bunch of really good suggestions to play around with. (“Play,” being the operative word.)
As you do play with your fields, keep in mind that if you were able to be a certain way before, you have–somewhere within you–the ability to be that way again.
My pleasure! That’s why I’m here.