I don’t know if I am the only one who experienced this but every time that I am with my family they always belittle me. there was times that they make fun of my mental health. it’s like they always want to see me go down and have the worst time of my life. is there any field that can help me to solve this problem? it’s honestly sickening to feel this way. pls help
I am sorry you are going through this
To keep you positive and hopeful:
The more you respect yourself the less you allow others to disrespect you:
The more you love yourself the more others learn how to love you:
To shield from others negativity:
The Black Mirrored Stone Shield
To increase respect from others:
Torus Weaved Respect: New Release
and no, you are not the only one
Hope things get better
They are doing this because either
a) they are mirroring the lack of self love and self respect that you have for yourself
or
b) they are toxic people in the first place
or
c) both
In all cases the solution is what Luna recommended, increase your self respect and self love and decide that you will only allow for yourself to be treated good.
In most cases it is really a)
Most people do not have enough enough free will to proactively chose to treat you bad, so they are really simply REACTING to your subconscious patterns and external circumstances in general.
You might even need to use your free will and make the decision to fully love them back. And with that I mean politely speaking straight to their faces that you love them and that you want to be treated in a certain respectful way. Listen to Ego Dissolution at least 5x times before you do that.
That was a wow comment @JAAJ . my own development has showed me time and again the very same thing, which of course i allways blocked because how it can be possible. the NPC s have no free will, they havent an idea what that is, but I project my own on them together with all the negativity i gathered from…them?..and then sh… happens…A breath taking genius comment indeed!
Worst time when it comes from family. They are the best people who should usually uplift you.
i used maitreya home series like unconditional love or raise vibration for your house on loop for 30 to an hour or longer it does wonders, keep in mind i do live with family with low vibe all the time, we empaths need protection too.