I am draining someone’s energy how to stop it?

This, and other things OP has described across many topics, would indicate an issue with one’s physical and/or energy system being weakened or overburdened in some way.

When the system is overburdened or weakened (easier to overburden it with typical daily activity if it is already weakened), further input will feel like more of a burden upon your system and result in potential issues.


Just as if one has an injured leg and cannot put much weight upon it…

That does not mean one should normally avoid putting any weight on one’s legs, or stop walking… or consider walking inherently harmful and costly…

(or advise others that they must do such!!)

The better solution would be to assess one’s system, find the issue(s) and heal one’s leg.

(in this analogy, healing the leg is analogous to healing one’s mind-body complex and system in whichever ways are needed)


It is understandable to be distressed when one’s system is in distress, regardless of the cause.

It is even understandable and common to be panicked or anxious, and the brain can naturally associate things which one experiences at the same time with the distress, then feel an aversion to them.

(whether they are or aren’t causing the actual issue(s))

This does not mean one should advise others they should avoid the things one feels an aversion to.


When one generalises one’s own experience to stating what others should do, despite repeatedly receiving input from others about their many actual, differing experiences…

…that attempts to disrespect and invalidate others’ many equally real and valid experiences.

(With respect to this specific discussion, some like @Maoshan_Wanderer below have actual experience with fields over 12+ years!)

From other discussions:


Also, as @Maoshan_Wanderer said, the human mind-body complex is complex.

It is rather common under overwhelm or stress to ‘latch onto’ a single variable as the “cause” of a situation with a very complex set of variables.

(and situations are typically far more complex than this type of single-variable thinking!)

That type of fixation and aversion is even classically used to differentiate the occurrence of certain types of neural activity, which are involved in creating anxiety, distress or ‘trauma’.

It also tends to result in some degree of projection of the issue onto particular things one associates with it, even though they may simply be occurring at the same time as being distressed / overwhelmed.

Likely this is a factor, based upon all of OP’s posts.

As another user said, there are so many different variables and sources of physical, energetic, mental input OP has already mentioned across the many threads she has started here.

(various different types of energy work, subliminals, sleeping pills, antidepressants, low energy levels, serious viral infections, etc.)

OP hasn’t provided a complete picture of all of the variables and changes which might be involved when asked about it either.

And some of this has been discussed in previous topics already.
(reposting some of this as the discussions have been scattered across multiple topics and new threads opened now)

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