…Earth can simply not compete.
The concept of having a „harem“ is a limited human concept and not the final stage of intimate pleasures. Most of it is just superficial sexual variety, but without a deep connection.
The same goes for the concept of „soulmates“ where the intimacy is limited to just 2 persons. While the intimacy is deep, there is no sexual variation and it is also a „we against the world“ mindset type of thing.
But how about combining the intimacy of the typical 2-people-soulmate connection and expanding it to your whole species?
There are alien societies out there that operate as a Group Consciousness, where everyone, while still having their individuality, is telepathically and soul-wise so much connected and interconnected, that there is zero perceived separation between the members.
Everyone loves and adores everyone.
Everyone has sex with everyone and is intimate with each other.
It becomes all a major melting pot of exchange of energies.
Like a network of neurons firing all together and getting off with each other.
Imagine experiencing true deep connection and intimacy whereever you go.
There is no competition for females by males and vice versa.
No one is left out with unfullfilled needs.
Everyone is always there for everyone else.
You experience deep connection and intimacy whereever you go and whomever you meet.
Additionally, everyone sees the other‘s beauty not just from their physical body, but also from their energy body.
Then of course, with their advanced genetic tech, everyone‘s bodies look like Chad‘s and Stacy‘s anyways, so it is impossible to not desire each other even on a pure physical level.
Everyone is beautiful in body, energy, soul and mind.
And all of this beauty is interconnected into a constant state of bliss and belonging.
Earth has nothing to offer like this and there is truly nothing to miss or FOMO here on this planet.
There are much more profound experiences out there!