The first video features a plainspoken travelogue of the afterlife process, the layout of tunnel of light destination (lots of tunnels end in a central corridor where there are also doors that, one suspects, are portals back to the physical real. This afterlife space is full of screens; perhaps it reflects the technological framework of the new arrival.
The second video centers on transformation through a frame of reference shift, as in, what if YOU chose your hard life. That would recast certain hardships to be endured as challenges to build character. Whatever the merits (or demerits) of that shift for mass politics, it seems to be just what the former drug addict in the video needed to hear (think the Oracle and NEO in the Matrix films). Plus, she got some help. Bonus feature: She dissects perfectly the all-too-human addict mind (she wanted to be free of heroin but not other drugs b/c she still liked those). In any case, the other side meets her halfway and helps get her life turned around.
I think what comes across in both videos is the immense value of NDE experiences for people. The briefest glimpse that forces beyond this earthly domain care about us is enough to turn lives around. Perhaps the NDEs are objective experiences that describe the afterlife in detail. All that we know for sure is that they are transformative. They do seem to be tailored to the needs of the person undergoing them. Some folks, who were atheists, perhaps a bit vain, might undergo a hellish experience (Iāve seen a couple of these) and come back like Scrooge from the ghost of Christmas future wanting to care more about others. The drug addict, also an atheist, in the second videoāwho by her own admission got people into the drug lifeāgets a dose of caring. Objectively, sheās got more red in her ledger than the vain atheist, but he (it was a he in the video Iām rememberingāI think he was an art history professor) needs a scare and she needs a dose of love, so thatās what they get. The only thing noteworthy about the atheism is that it often works as a defense mechanism/cope when living in an atomized, uncaring culture.