Thank You. 
Also, that part with the broken heart was a reply to a previous post, itās just that I opted to not use quotes, other than the first one.
Yes, it is. 
All The Best for/to You too and to/for Anyone reading.
Your post indicates to me a big bulk of Resentment a.k.a Hidden Anger.
This resentment is most likely due to unprocessed (= traumatic) rejections, disappointments, jealousy etc.
Love IS power.
Especially Self Love.
Because the more you love yourself, the more good stuff your Subconscious Mind will manifest for you.
This includes good treatment from others.
And with that, love is also freedom.
Also, if you are able to project love directly onto others, you can melt their hearts, heal their stuck up emotions and literally bring them over to your side. Not by force, but by positive example and inspiration.
Most humans on the planet receive also love from higher beings and entities all the time but are not open to experience it because of their low vibration.
Pretty much all of your personal experiences are a reflection of your own inner state (primarily your level of self love and your vibration).
There you have it!
You are sabotaging yourself.
A typical self-sabotaging behavior that is the result of the above mentioned unprocessed trauma and unrealeased hidden anger and resentment.
ā¦but because I CHOOSE TO.
I have Free Will and with that the power to choose.
With the power to choose, I can love someone or something UNCONDITIONAL, which is the only way real love can be expressed.
Absolutely not.
And your ego is trying to hide this from you.
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Agree on the resentment.
While āHateā is a too strong word to use for, I somewhat experience that myself, but more bc of the expectations people had as soon as IĀ“ve expressed sympathy, let alone āloveā .
I had the same issue with āfamilyā and āfriendshipā as it usually served as a justification for abuse IĀ“ve grown to resent it, just to realize that is wasnĀ“t family in general but the abuse of the concept that I really resentet. I can imagine a similar dynamic at play here.
Knowledge and love of self is really key.
Yes, and as long as I am able to give love to myself, why shouldnĀ“t I give to others as well? For me personally it doesnĀ“t make sense in another way.
Apart from that it feels damn good to give, as long as itĀ“s really coming from a space of free will.
And if I am not treating others with unconditional love It usually serves as a reminder where I am lacking it for myself, what parts I am repressing, what sides of myself I am not aknowledging.
(Ofc unconditional love is unequal unconditional tolerance)
At this point I really believe that a strong Higher Self connection trumps everything. IĀ“ve meditated a few times over the last days to the audio and it brought me so much clarity and awareness of why I gave my power away to others. ItĀ“s such a mindfuck thinking about how much people waste their time in therapy, self help circle jerks etc. and revel in the past hurt instead of going to the bottom and solve it.
We can do better than that.
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Yet again, new interesting debate you bring up.
In my experience, we actually do have power when in love, it is just that we āarenāt aware of itā.
To put it simply, if it ends up being dissapointment, you have the power to either cut it off when it becomes the necessary choice for your own wellbeing (if all else fails ofc) or if she leaves you, only you can decide intensity of the bad aftermath.
What does the second option mean, how exactly is it power? Girl you truly loved ended up cheating on you x times and you find out in the worst way possible. You have the power to choose how you deal with the aftermath. Choices and following through is our power we discredit too often.
Suffering is sort of inevitable, because you were emotionally involved however:
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You can deal with it responsibly by taking time off social media, all distractions, not avoiding the suffering in any way and instead meditate and self reflect. Maybe not go full monk mode, but def spend decent amount of time by self reflecting in a way you feel you need it and embrace all that comes up. Doing this helps heal the trauma in healthiest while also āfastestā manner, at least considering other choice.
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Try to live ur life like it never happened or keep ignoring inner cry for help/ get to watching some red pill videos/use drugs or alcohol or anything to ānumbā the pain/distract urself each time thought comes up.
Second option can make u detestful of woman and āloveā in the long-term, which makes u less likely to manifest it, ever.
I have seen enough people being āin Loveā to know āit isnt fakeā. But again, from our minds what we havent experienced or seen enough of, is hardly āexistingā in this reality or any other.
I wont speak of my own experiences when it comes to āLoveā, at least publicly like this.
In the end, this is just my perspective. I gave bad examples possibly, but hopefully the point is there.
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Okā¦
Iām NOT good at replies, so Iāll only say a few words:
Iām the kind of guy who goes through anything when it comes to love, including jealousy, yet I also Choose not to have a relationship right now, a little later, maybe, but I am scared of all these feelings, I like stuff to remain simple, basic, sexual, no feelingsā¦
I donāt want a āloving, fulfiling relationshipā. 
Not even with yourself? 
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With Myself SURE, I mean that I dont want romantic stuff.
Ok, things are Not static, so in a year, I might be in love, who knowsā¦
Until this:
comes first, then yes, that
(particularly as protrayed in popular media, which seems to be the template that most people use when doing that āromantic stuffā) is Bulls**.
(An observation: I know Iām beginning to sound like a broken record, but are you noticing how we keep coming back to self-love in our conversations? )
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Yes, and I Agree, Self Love is the base/basis And I still need to Improve in that Department (maybe Iām just learning true self love) before venturing in heavy stuff.
Maybe YOU GUYS GIVE ME TOO MUCH CREDITā¦
Iām NOT Advanced when it comes to Spirituality, Self Love, Relationships, etc.
Ok, just reread your posts.
Sounds like deep abandonment issues.
Why does it take you āstrengthā to not become dependent if you really
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Just putting this out here as food for thought.
Check this one out too:
The main field for it:
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Thank You - I WILL actually use it from now on.
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I politely disagree with that comment. I think, from what Iāve been seeing, that we give you all the credit you deserve.
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