I think the word for it is misandry.
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What do girls think about the Johnny Bravo mentality though? 
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I re-read the topic because I donāt think we were hating on men here in general?
She came with a situation and I donāt think we have been hating on men as a response. Iām just asking this because I think you would bring this up only if you felt like there was some of that going on here (?).
As English is not my first language, plus I donāt know that show, maybe something is lost on me hereā¦ are you saying you think she is calling some peopleās comments on here lowkey dumb, or you donāt the she isā¦? 
Either way it would probably be best to just focus on OP and recommendations for her issue.
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Violet mentioned
OP mentioned she doesnāt have social media
my assumption (and this is my fault, to assumeā¦ (assumption the mother of all fuckups) is the is that Violent was speaking about Men on here as the topic is about
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of course, we all want to provide well-rounded advice.
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This is so boring. 
which part?
Iām bringing up some points Iāll like clarifications to better provide feedback for midthunder, nice balanced feedback.
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Nothing.
Thats why i deleted it.
Dont quote my deleted posts.
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You misunderstand what I meant Zen 
ignorance. I am referring to ignorance. Those who boast and gloat in their body armor of ignorance
Those who speak from a place of ignorance, a place of contempt.
I try to scroll away from those comments / block them out, as it is of not much resonance 
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Iām not sure why it would be assumed I am stating my brothers are dumb lol. Of course not. I am basing this beyond gender. Genderless ; just the concept of ignorance, ignorant, foolish, narrow minded comments.
Maybe because EdEddnEddie are men and i used that in the the sentenceā¦? I dunno but
I just meant as cartoon characters
Iād of reference them if it was the show was instead called El, Ella & Evaline
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Actually Iād like to make it clear
Many men on here are very kind, gracious, and respectful especially when it comes to their peers, including women.
They treat them as a sister just like they would a brother. They treat all equal, all revered in utmost respect.
Furthermore they understand that the concept of feminism simply means equality; cerebral equality for men and women. Just equality. It means you will not throw a female widow into the prye once her husband dies, or have her bring to her in-laws a dowry, just as her soon to be husband will not.
It means to treat all the way death does; equal. Death picks us up sans regard to oneās gender, caste, or creed.
Anyways, for those of you who do, many of which are men, are sincerely appreciated. You have my utmost respect :)
And @MonkeyOwl monkeyowl your engliish is superb do not doubt that for a moment!
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Wellā¦ thatās debatable 
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Can you debate it elsewhere thoughā¦?
Letās respect OP
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No, it is not; what you are referring to is the interpretation of the definition, not the definition itself.
It is important we differentiate this. Truly (not referring to you btw I mean in general).
When in doubt refer to your ability to scope something out for what it actually means. Start from scratch. So many terms today have been manipulated, does that actually mean that the concept itself is ? No. Itās someone elseās projection, or perspective of said concept that is; to such a point that the general itself becomes judgmental of it; we must separate opinion from fact.
if we donāt everything will remain in chaos and will clash.
also I really hope you realize what I said isnāt meant to be read like that.
enough is enough. itās time this forum understands there should be no hostility to men or women.
that is not the goal of this place, and anyone who practices that type of way ought to purchase this: New Perspectives: New Release
I am not kidding. Itās not about whoās right whoās wrong. Itās just a humane ethic. Treat all with respect, with love.
Unless you prefer to live in a world that does not support humanitarian ethics (but then honestly that makes no sense why youād even be here considering the Duo is the epitome of that concept) thenā¦ idk. Maybe Iāll just re-advertise New Perspectives: New Release idk
But please. Donāt minimize what I write up there not because I wrote it, but because itās very sad to see such a wall of separation, when we are all meant to unite :) I never want anyone on this forum to think I hate men. I love them! Hell my best friend is a man. My other great friend is a man. I love them to death. They obviously arenāt mysgonitic
and consider
too
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I never said I wanted to debate it, just saying itās a debatable topic thatās allā¦
@Violet No no itās fine I wonāt say anymore, sheās rightā¦ itās off topic Iām just saying Iāve got my own opinion about it. Nothing wrong with that.
Ones that speak about Chad culture
Toxic masculinity
About āhot chicksā
About rating physical attractiveness on the scale
Like āA chick approached me, she was a ninerā¦ā
Rating women and men like they are objects
Caring about their jawline definitions, reproductive organs more than what is in their heart
Looking down upon sex workers (obviously only female ones)
Or how is it only admirable for a man to have a lot of attention from the opposite gender, to have āall ladiesā
When the genders are switched the woman is not admired for this
She is suddenly a slut
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Well, we have the right to care about looks. 
Thatās not sexism.
We are kind of programmed by Nature to look for attractive women, itās not our fault, again, not sexism, just Nature; still, some of us may use certain words, sometimes, but rarely you would find a man who actually thinks women are inferior or any of that thinking; also, we have to keep in mind the context, there are certain threads where there are heated debates or hot topics.
Playing a little bit of the Devilās advocate here, but you have to see these perspectives as well.
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Thatās not sexism when you take a quote out of the context.
Iām by no means trying to blame the entire manhood and label each man as sexist.
So there is no really āweā here, you see.
Iām sure you yourself probably donāt have gender-based prejudices, which is great.
But please do not take my message personally onto yourself, because I never meant it towards all men.
By colligating the toxic masculinity into āwe are programmedā you are dismissing the problem.
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Well, each man is an individual and if someone treats women disrespectfully, thatās their problem, they sure got issues, unfortunatelyā¦
My advice is this: donāt take their words personally, unless they are attacking you or calling you names or anything like that, in which case you can flag their comments.
The vast majority of people, the vast majority of us (male or female) are kind of broken, really flawed individuals, in some way or another, but that does not excuse anyone from being disrespectful.
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Yeah. Thank you.
Gonna watch it like a silly movie, without getting involved emotionally.
None of it is real anyway lol
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Well, you either flag every single disrespectful comment (or some of them) or you ignore certin topics or you watch the whole ādramaā as a movie, as you said. 
Think about it, we men are suffering for not getting a certain woman to like us, many women (some are more ambitious, some guys want all the women they meet to love them/be attracted to them) or even just one woman, any womanā¦
Itās a show, to be honest, like the Greek theatre masks, happiness and sadness, watch/read our dramas as a comedy/drama, youāll love it (or not).
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