Review:
Today was my day off
We are facing some big issues at work
Were everybody as usual is blaming others
One of my bosses (with a giant ego) was putting a lot of pressure on someone (that works for me as well but i am not her boss) when she could not solve the problem.
We all share a chat so i could read the convos back and forth, i tried holding back as much as I could but eventually i knew i had to step in.
So i private messaged him, but before i played this hopping id voice my opinion and concerns without allowing my ego to trick me into being a hero and just throw out upset words that wouldnt solve anything either. I let it on loop while talking to him.
Let me tell u this guy has never ever accepted any responsibility he is just “perfect” and everybody else is incapable of doing anything right.
Long story short : we talked, we even sent back and forth voice notes so we could hear the voice going higher and the complaints lol but the conversation was never cut off (something he always does if he is losing an argument)
My words were firm, reasonable, with real facts but with respect, understanding towards his frustration and worries, and tho he kept trying to refute my reasoning with sarcasm it started to be less and less from both parts, at some point my heart area felt warm and all i could think of was about his good side lol, all the times he has gone out of his way to help us etc, and then as i mentioned one review before i was just feeling joyful haha imagine that i was just honestly wanting to laugh thinking “what kinda childish fight is this? We are being ridiculoussss ” so i was just like anyway boss, we"ll fix it tomorrow we always do! And laughed.
That was it. All good when it seemed impossible at first.
But the best part was that the changes i was feeling inside i noticed he most have been feeling them too, within himself, because it was at the same time we both were lowering the argument and just like “this makes no sense this is silly” and he ended up laughing too and positive to face whatever tomorrow.
My favorite field right now
And something id forgot to mention before and today i felt it even more…
This is the ultimate Ego killer.
Edit: no no, he wasnt feeling the effects of the field… the field wasnt magically traveling reaching him…
I was receiving back what i was sending to him
It bounced back in harmonious sync