Also don’t take my words one by one as humans in general don’t stay in relationships for attraction nor money, most of the time its based on feelings so you have to be sure that the feelings are not based on the attraction between you. A marriage is based on respect or an idea of foundation that a couple wants and that should be enough.There are many other aspects but you can understand that wearing the matchmaker could be a disaster because the things you want now will not be the same 5 years later and that dogtag is based on your desires.