Lol if there is one thing i have learnt is that, u should never help people that don’t ask for it.
Lol I thought I was being a good person by trying to help everyone around me, if something helped me, then i rushed to tell them,
Now i know that i was just being annoying, also that u shouldn’t help people unless they actually ask for it, I remember when i first picked up meditation, i told my close friends and how much it can help them too, But they just didn’t care about improving themselves it didn’t make sense to me. and would kinda give me that shoo-off response
I could of spent all that time improving myself and letting them see the changes.
what I am trying to say is that going out ur way to help someone because you think you’re helping them, just causes u and that person more issues, for many reasons, one being that they think ur trying to belittle them in a way, but also some people just don’t care about improving themselves it never makes sense to me, but why?
I am not consistent with habits, but to not even caring for what someone has to say just is strange to me,
In life its best to shut your mouth, no matter if it could be beneficial to that person, sometimes people have to learn things on their own,
i hope i don’t have to, but i know that would just be a lie am telling myself
Whether i learnt this through experience or having more respect for my time
Lol to be fair, i think its the manhattan field responsible for making me taking different light on things, but i need way more time to confirm thats true