Severe depression due to finances

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Hello,

Long time lurker. I’ve bought a few fields and tags so I’m not necessarily new to fields and such, def not advanced though.

I’m here to ask for some advice. I will try and keep this short as possible but I like to write so who knows lol. I know people don’t like reading novels lol.

I’m currently at THE lowest point in my life. Going through extreme depression due to money problems. I’ve been trying to run an online business, making and selling custom items for people (just to keep it short and simple) since around 2020. I have thrown just about every dollar I have into this store (easily more than 10k I would say) with redesigning it, getting good copy, quality control and of course spending on ads.

I’ve even consulted with a few experts trying to get my social media booming however it all just doesn’t seem to work in my favor. My store idea has been proven and others are making a killing in this niche. People always say they love my work so quality isn’t the issue. However for some reason it’s like every single thing I try to do never seems to work in my favor, I just end up losing money without getting results.

This has put me in a pretty dark place. Due to the depression I’ve become addicted to p**n… like really addicted in the past years, everyday for hours. It’s the only way I feel I can “escape” to get any kind of temp relief even though I know it’s probably making things worse. It’s hard to find the energy to even get out of bed. I don’t even want to work on the business. I’ll try and find anything else to do besides work on it because it just leads me further into depression. Hell I don’t even go outside anymore.

I have like a few hundred dollars left to my name with store bills and everything else stacking up. I still believe in my business, but its like there’s an invisible roadblock to success. I know I need to deal with the depression, but getting my finances in order is a big part of that.

Are there any recommended fields or stacks I need to be listening to? I know it’s a bit of a long shot, but maybe there is some fields that can actually manifest money or at least help bring in consistent sales to my store and have me back on track? Any thoughts or support would mean a lot.

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#2
The brutal reality: (warning: brutal nice2knowu)

You are not addicted to porn; you just don’t believe in your business enough. If you did, you would have zero time for porn. Really zero. It wouldn’t even cross your mind. And you say you spend hours, HOURS, on porn, daily. Those countless hours you could have invested in your business or other productive habits that complement your business. Unless…

You might not even want the business. Have you asked yourself why you wanted it in the first place? Was it the lifestyle, the money, other reasons? Those questions need to be explored urgently.

The good news:

Well, the good news is: you are more than likely not depressed at all, but instead cycling through this pattern of not working on your business, thereby feeling guilty about yourself, then the quick dopamine shot from porn to feel that temporary moment of greatness about yourself, then repeating this pattern.

Solutions:
I would recommend these fields:

Woven Worlds Millions
Abundance Mindsetting
Powerful Good Luck
Attract Wealth and Prosperity

among others. You wanna have that constant push from the woven worlds millions and be backed by the universe in terms of wealth, whilst upgrading your mindset with abundance.

Trust me, you can push out of this and beyond, and to be perfectly honest, I wish you become a millionaire, if that is your goal. Or more, its up to you. Good luck :beers:

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#3

Hi RockZone
Happy Welcome blue

I will add to the suggestions the new audio Stress and Anxiety

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#4

PoNR + New Perspectives will reset you in less than a week. After that add any other fields and action from the new space you will find your self then.

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#5

Maybe You are not ready for your own business?
Trust me . If You have something to sell threre will be always somebody willing to buy what’ You have to offer.

If i were You i would get regular job at least temporary to get more abundant mindset and boost your bielief that’ You are able to make money.

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#6

recommended fields :
PONR
astrological Abundance Buff
Overcome a Bad Financial Situation I ,II , III ( free on gumroad )

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#7

stop watching porn and do no fap

not probably
as a former porn sexual addict trust me
porn and fap only make everything get worse

there are some videos about nofap videos

also this is the nofap field i using rn

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#8

Hi there, I really feel sympathetic to your issues because I was pretty much in your situation except that the financial part was like 100x the multitude of your situation due to too much debt and no orders (I run my family business), so here is how I fixed my problems, both p*rn addiction and business situation.

P*rn… just do nofap as above. Now for the easiest nofap experience for free… Ojas on dreamseeds. It basically turns your sexual energy into goodies, mentally energetically physically. I started my nofap on Jan. 8th, 4 days before I started morphic field, and I can tell you that nofap is so easy with Ojas to the point I am wondering why people fail and relapse to the point that I have to check what “relapse” means because I have no idea why people can fail something so easy. It probably isn’t, but thanks to ojas (and some other things)

For the dopamine receptors repair due to porn abuse, it will take like 3 - 9 months to cure it naturally without porn, but you can speed up the process using dopamine receptor repair and addiction healing. I run it for a couple of weeks then I don’t feel the need to do so.

For depression and a very good combo with ojas I recommend internal alchemy crucible right after ojas, you can check the thread for more details, but seriously these two fields really should have been paid but made free…

If you are willing to use creator other than Sapien and spend 10 dollars, highly recommend PU’s patreon, you can use the XXX file to deal with cleaning the unwanted side effects of watching too much porn, like energy draining from certain p*rn actors/acctresses, ok we all have favorite people doing that stuff but it is for our best to get them out of our system. You also get access to many other good stuff that you can use even after membership expires.

Now onto the business part. For totally free (and very effective) package, I recommend the following from Sapien:

Attract wealth/abundance/prosperity
Probability and luck

Mainly because these two also have functions that removes blockage toward wealth/abundance/luck that you will need at this stage

Also PU overcome financial 1 2 and 3 as mentioned, you can stop the first one after financial situation improves, and 3 if you are sure you are well energetically to receive wealth

You don’t need to spend at this stage if you are down to couple hundreds, you can do it later. If you are willing to spend 22 dollars you can get Sapien premium membership for wealth generation, this thing will put your revenue into OVERDRIVE… from my experience. I have stopped using it because all that revenue requires too much workforce and not necessarily means profits for me but you can use to see it helps your business/profit. Also financial protector and negentropic pulser are good that also comes with the 22 per month package. If you get PU membership there is a file called ritual of prosperity and abundance which is a good booster for any abundance related files.

Environmental fields… jade maneko neko and mass meditation 2.0 are both free and effective, play it in your business operating place.

Some cheap and effective fields for business. If you are willing to spend 33 dollars (less than 30 on just about any sale) you can get one of my personal fav The Welcomed. Play it in your business operation place as it invites abundance and positive outcomes, which is great for increasing revenue as well as actions that leads to profits! I definitely recommend it to any business owning people, will write a testimonial for it soon (it took a while for me to see its actions but it is great for business operation and profits). If you are willing to spend 65 dollars you can get probability wave, great for supply chain management and many things outside business as well. I literally made 50 ~ 100x the amount I spent in 3 weeks with it.

So in general I think your problems can be fixed with just a couple free fields, don’t need to go desperate and buy premium stuff at this moment (if you think that you have to spend xxx in order to xxx, this thought itself is a blockage and detrimental to your progress).

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#9

Unpopular answer but…being madly addicted to porn simply means that an entity is attached to you and needs to be removed. Also on top of that some of those entities might have cursed you to the point that you feel like you HAVE to watch porn. Here is what helped me tremendously. I’m also 99% sure your head feels heavy.

Take a look at this video and report back. You will lose nothing from this.

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#10

@RockZone

There is also PU’s “Higher Self Exorcism” field.

And then also, it is important to remember than porn is never really about sex.
But about using high shots of dopamine to ESCAPE from bigger underlying life problems and trauma.
The solution is to find out what one is escaping from and then heal these traumas.
In many cases this can be an escape from feeling loneliness, feeling of abandonment, feeling of unworthiness etc. → Check out the fields in JAAJ’s Self Love Stack, especially the one dealing with trauma healing.

Or, if there are no problems/trauma (which is very unlikely), then people use porn because they have no other purpose in life and are simply using it as a filler for boredom.
The solution is to find or create a purpose that is stronger than the drug.

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#11

First, thanks everyone for the suggestions and feedback. This forum seems to be one of only maybe a handful of forums where people seem to genuinely care for each other. I can only mention 2 users per post so I’ll have to break this up.

@Nice2knowU I love the honesty. Can’t be an entrepreneur without being able to take criticism, adapt and make the necessary changes.

While I do believe in it, I will admit I’m not 100% into it. This business was a backup plan, actually was kind of forced into it. My original business that was doing really well got crushed because of covid. Supply chains shut down so couldn’t get any inventory. So the only thing I could do was shut down that business and open up something where I didn’t need to rely on getting products in from overseas. I’m kind of stuck with trying to make this work as I’ve invested so much money and time into this that I don’t have the funds to pivot to anything else. If I could finally get this to work I wouldn’t mind taking the money from this business and investing it into my original ideal as I do need quite a bit of start up money to get that ball rolling again.

Thank you for the suggestions but I think woven might be out of my price range right now. Unless it can guarantee I’ll make money (which I know there are no guarantees) I’ll have to hold off on it for now.

@Rosechalice Thanks for the welcome. Haven’t seen this one before. Looks like it could help level myself and deal with this daily stress.

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#12

@ZeroAlchemist

What do you mean by reset? You mean from the porn addiction?

@Seraph I’ve been listening to the bad finical situation audios for a little while now. I can’t say for sure if it’s helping as its hard to judge it since I haven’t went totally broke yet lol. It could be helping me stay afloat. The PONR and abundance field has been on my wish list however those 2 only will cost me close to $500 which I don’t have right now.

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#13

@Moonhaw I’ve read your thread and was going to DM you asking how everything was and if there was any advice you could give me since I seem to be in a similar situation. Glad you popped in here!

Oddly enough I have been listening to this one for awhile. This is going to sound kind of insane but ever since using this I don’t feel like I had to fap or watch porn. The urge wasn’t there however I would still force myself out of habit to get some kind of stress relief lol. So I can attest that it is a wonderful field.

Adding to my stack

I actually subscribed to PU’s pateron about a week ago. Just discovered the XXX file a couple of days ago. Listen to it that same night and I have zero desire to watch porn and feel like I’m not drawn to it even for stress relief. So far this has been the most powerful field for me in terms of kicking the porn addiction.

I think I can spare the $22 for sapien’s premium since it seems like I’ll get the best bang for my buck with having access to both the wealth generation, financial protector and the other goodies. I think these might be the most important for me right now. If these can make some changes then adding in the welcomed and probability wave will be next.

Thanks for taking the time out to respond with the advice you provided. It means a lot and I’m happy to hear your business turned around for the best. Hopefully I can also turn mine around and in turn return the favor to someone else.

@Rogue I’ve seen this posted a couple of times before. Although it looks like PU’s 3x tab seems to be working for me, I’ll still check this out, thanks!

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@JAAJ I may just pick this up as well. PU’s fields seem to work really well.

I agree and I’ll be open what I think is the trauma or issue here. I’m escaping from the thought of going broke, being a failure. I’ve told myself I wouldn’t be getting a 9-5 regular job and have been making my own money online for many years since I was much younger. However covid hit hard and during that time it wiped my bank account. There was a whole lot of things during that time that started the downward spiral and I just haven’t been able to rebound since. This is the first time I’ve ever not seen light at the end of the tunnel and a fear of wtf am I going to do if this business doesn’t work out. It’s a scary thought and porn helps takes me away from worrying about that all of that temporarily.

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#15

Putting it all together, any recommendations on a stack I should be using? Say I have access to sapien’s premium, PU’s pateron, and PU’s higher self financial blockage.

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#16

Not to turn this into a full blown therapy session haha. I think my short term goal right now would just like to have some steady cash flow and not have to worry about money anymore for awhile. My health has taken a huge toll. I’d like to be able to focus on that and buy some of these more exotic fields. Actually took a look at myself in the mirror and I don’t even recognize myself anymore.

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#17

= existential fear

→ work on root chakra
→ work on abundance mindset
→ use Amygdala Healing and other fear healing fields, like PTSD Help
→ work on realizing that you are an eternal soul and will always live

= seeking external validation

→ work on self love

Besides that, I cannot give you any business advice but I recommend you use wealth and luck fields daily.

And then also Angelic Intercession and Alien Intercession and proactively ask them for help. Explain your situation to them and ask for help. Do it every day.

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You are welcome, glad to help, when I got started there wasn’t much abundance info specifically for business owners so I had to do experiment on myself, glad that it turns out well. Business is booming and my family is busy reducing debt level.

Hypothetical stack (if no 22 dollar tier)

Separate into 2 stacks, one for abundance another one for spiritual/health/dealing with p*rn

Abundance

PU ritual of prosperity (booster)
PU HS financial (if you have)
attract wealth/prosperity/abundance
probability & luck
PU overcome 1/2/3 about 8~10min each, take 1st one out when you are out of your trouble, take 3rd one out when you are feeling well energetically for abundance and use it again when you feel disturbed energetically
unexpected gifts (use this one if you like to receive gift/help, kind of random but when it works it really works)
grounding

The other stack

ojas
amygdala healing (if you have fear/fight or flight popping up)
internal alchemy crucible (Sammy once said that he highly recommend the amygdala healing and internal alchemy crucible combo for bringing up the fears and burn it)
PU negativity transcendence (patreon)
PU stress dissolver (free on gumroad)
PU 3X tab
Heal addiction/dopamine receptor
If trauma is a thing, use alchemical revision of trauma or one of the trauma file from PU patreon
Your pre-natal Jing is probably lost a bit due to p*rn. Post natal part can be covered with previous ojas/internal alchemy combo, pre-natal part is harder. Here is a link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dpYePWNR-BQ&t=2016s that several members including myself has used, definitely works, use it until you feel your Jing is replenished. Free altenative to Neg. Jing.
grounding

If you have 22 dollar tier:

  1. swap out attract wealth and replace with financial protector X1 and wealth generation X2

  2. Every 4 days, do negentropic pulser instead of ojas/internal alchemy crucible/jing

  3. Use smart tap tapper instead of trauma files, required active work but it is very fast at dealing specific events

20 fields in total I hope it is not too much

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#19

I think moonhaw laid out a pretty good stack to help deal with everything you mentioned plus the added business side of things. I will try and inclued the intercession audios in the stack as well.

@Moonhaw Thanks for taking the time out to list out this stack for me. It’s definitely not too much. I was watching porn for hours anyways so I can just replace that time with the audios instead lol. I’ll start listening to these immediately and will try to report back if I see any improvement with the business. Is there any specific order I should listen to these stacks? So listening to the wealth stack first or put the wealth stack last after the spiritual/health stack or it doesn’t matter?

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