PLUG AND PLAY 
https://forum.enlightenedstates.com/t/new-perspectives-new-release/19020
https://forum.enlightenedstates.com/t/the-outlook-retrainer-testimonials/18098
Someone call theee 
She is dating with you and you are dating with her.
Which means , she also need to put effort. If she dont put effort. You better get a phone and call another girl.
Someone told me . I talk to a human . A woman its a human .
So no big deal , at the end of the day its about having fun together. 
edit :
Well sometimes , this dont apply 
, but you got it 
(Photo from men in black 2 the character its an alien ; its a movie )