It is a bit different, but similar, i would say the catch up is a lot longer with older ones.
You can ask, but these are meant to be personalized to the person owning it.
Keep in mind, while the amount seems high, no more are planned when its gone.
So the possible mint amounts is also very locked.
only that specific amount will ever function.
It is possible to work around perhaps, before it is all sold
but after that, its pretty much locked.
It would be best to make a wallet you can transfer to him and let him use when needed then transfer back to yourself.
While i am not too great a judge on people’s sensitivity, these are strong.
He should be made aware as well… cause he will feel it
He may freak out far worse