There is too much too unpack here but I’m going to go off a bit unhinged here because I am rather passionate about the subject. I apologize if I offend some but I don’t mean anything personally. These are just thoughts and I’m always welcome to being wrong.
There are two types of people in the world. Those that blame the world for their problems and those that blame themselves for their problems. I think a lot of the men that feel lost with the changing dynamics of female/male are of the blame the world mentality. And I hate to break it to you. But the world does not cater to you.
It does not cater to me. It does not cater women. It does not cater to anyone. The world in many ways isn’t fair to most people. But it’s not supposed to be. We came to this world to be challenged. To face hardships. And to grow from them. No matter how good you have it, life will throw a challenge your way. That is how games work. There is always an obstacle, a challenge, a boss, a puzzle that you have to beat to get to the next level. Life is like that. And in this modern world, the challenge is unique. Women have freedom now. And it has changed everything. And many of you think it changed things for the worse.
Well… some of you keep touting evolutionary biology and hormones and so on. Okay then. I’m going to speak to you in your language and give you some tough male love. It will be harsh but I mean, if you are touting masculinity as something that needs to be celebrated, then you must be able to withstand harshness. So forgive me if I offend you.
If you want to go by evolutionary standards, then the evolutionary game is survival of the fittest. The strongest, richest and most valuable men survive on and attract the most females. By strong, I don’t only mean physically strong. I mean mentally strong. I feel like a lot of men don’t even know what masculinity is. That masculine strength I speak of is that of not whining about the world and how difficult it is. It is the strength of accepting it is difficult and pushing through it through sheer willpower. Coming up with solutions to your problems. Understanding that the world won’t change for you so you make the world work for you. And I personally think most of the men complaining about the male/female dynamic today lack that sort of will.
And so they end up being the weak ones in the game. The males that are left out. That then feel left out and like the game is unfair. No. The game is the game. And if you were truly the strong masculine energy that you claim is lost in this world, you would better yourself, feel good about yourself and actually attempt to get the things you want. And you would achieve these things because a real man never stops trying. Never loses hope. A real man is sheer willpower. And when I hear men whine about the world, it smells to me that they lack that real masculine willpower.
Of course. I know I offended some of you with these words. But that is the evolutionary game of thought you are all still stuck on. I don’t even fully believe that! The higher you go in consciousness, the more you realize that whole game is very subjective. It has always been that way in the animal kingdom because they live in harsh environments where something is always trying to kill them or they have to kill to survive, so this game is automatic. It is the game of survival.
But now that humans have surpassed that game and we don’t need to succumb to the most extreme of primitive instincts to survive… we have a lot more control of our reality. We have more space to think. This freedom in thought allows us to shift out of that primitive mindset that worked for millions of years to keep humanity going. The environment and dynamic of the world is different now. We are safe. We are fed. So we can think about new things, create new ways of living and well, allow women to have more freedom…. Which is what happened.
A woman’s role for millions of years of just nurturing the children while men went out and hunted/worked. It made sense considering the harshness of the world and the way our bodies evolved over time. But it’s just different now. We don’t need to provide for women as they can now provide for themselves and have a sense of freedom they never truly had. And that bothers some of you so much.
I think that most of us are still stuck in the primitive realms of thought. Where these instincts we have developed over millions of years are still extremely active. And in these instincts is the understanding that the world is supposed to be a certain way (male over female dominance) but it just isn’t that way anymore. And I think that’s where this inner conflict derives from of believing the world is unfair. Your primitive instincts just don’t align with these drastic changes in humanity. But it’s really kicking into gear because you feel left out.
And then you listen to the Andrew Tates of the internet. Or listen to old Patrice Oneal podcasts (I listen to him too. He’s still one of my favorite comics. RIP). And dive into these echo chambers shouting at how unfair the female/male balance is. How only some guys get it all. Or how you need to be this or need to be that to get women. Just pure poison. None of it helps because if it actually did, you all would have been attracting women and not complaining anymore. All it does it dig you deeper into despair and instill a mentality that repels women. Even if you start to pretend well enough to attract women, that mentality will manifest itself eventually and repel those women away. In the essence of that mentality is the energy that says ‘ I desire women but I don’t like/respect them.’ That’s a repressive energy right there.
I am highly convinced that so as long as you keep that mentality, you will be left out for the rest of your lives. That mentality is your energy. It’s a part of your signature. And women are extremely sensitive to your energy signature. They can read your vibe without even knowing they did. They subconsciously know how you feel about women or that you are really struggling with them.
Someone here mentioned the way of the superior man. Excellent book. But I don’t think anyone here would be complaining about these things if they actually read and lived by the words there. I think men complaining about women not liking masculinity, don’t even exude the sort of masculinity that attracts women. If you did, women would literally be all over you.
I feel like a lot of mens perception of women seems to be perpetuated by loud twitter feminists…. The majority of women are not like these loud women on the internet! Seriously. Go outside and talk to women. You’ll come to realize that the vast majority of women are generally pretty normal and just looking for a guy that believes in himself, can carry good conversation and knows how to make her smile.
Go outside! The internet is truly blinding people throughout the world. But remember, your subconscious will reflect the reality you believe in. If this is what you believe in, the subconscious will prove it to you. And all it needs is the internet’s algorithms to do that or to misinterpret a womans actions to prove that.
Hence why I believe the mentality needs to go. It is poison to your subconscious. Replace that mentality with that of yes, the dynamic is different and difficult but I am going to work on myself to become a more attractive man. Any man can do this. If you say you can’t, you are allowing that toxic mentality to have control over your willpower. You are giving up and believing the world is one way and you will never fit in it.
You can prevail. You will prevail. You have to believe. I have seen men more worthless and more guttier looking than you can imagine, broke and looking homeless, attract all kinds of women because they believe in themselves. This toxic mentality of today makes you not believe in yourself. Makes you think it’s all unfair and the playing field just doesn’t work for you. Those are limiting beliefs! You are limiting yourself from being capable of ever overcoming your frustration.
You want to tout masculinity…. Then yes. Be masculine. Be warriors. Believe in your power. Fight for what you want. Run for what you’re looking for. And believe you are going to succeed. Anything you persist on is guaranteed to bring you success. If I were talking to you, I’d be yelling at you right now to wake you up. That damned mentality has some of you men asleep. Whining about the world. Don’t succumb to weakness. Find the strength in yourself and rise up against the worlds challenges. That is what you’re here for.
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