Hey brother, don’t let any failures define you. Things might not have gone your way this time but that in no way makes you a failure. I have much respect for you simply for the fact that you put in the effort and tried when many would have never even attempted. Take your time to grieve but just know that you have absolutely no idea how things are going to play out. It’s often only in hindsight that we see things that once made us feel so distraught turn out to be blessings in disguise.
You can trust that your higher self has a plan for you so try to look at the positives after you take the time to grieve and learn whatever you can learn from the situation. You have the choice to let this be a roadblock or use it as fertilizer for your growth. We are human and we make mistakes but that does not in any way mean that we are less of a person as that’s exactly why we came here in the first place! To make mistakes and learn from them. I have much love for you my friend @anon36260187
Have you tried using the JAAJ’s Daily Self Love Stack consistently to heal unconscious trauma, change your own view about yourself etc. ?
If not then I highly recommend that you do.
In almost all cases, subconscious self-sabotage happens when the subconscious mind tries to protect you from something that it beliefs is dangerous for you.
In most cases these are unprocessed trauma and deep seated negative core beliefs and fears.
Also hidden shame and guilt.
As crazy as it sounds, but the subconscious mind’s number one job is to keep you safe, even at the cost of keeping stuck you in old patterns!
That’s is why it is absolute key in any type of manifestation to release all these hidden blocks (trauma, shame, guilt etc.)
You may try and manifest stuff as hard as you want, but if your subconscious mind sees the goals as dangerous, it will sabotage them.
That’s why the Law of Attraction does not work for most people.
They try to manifest but never work on their shadow (trauma, limiting beliefs etc).
They are trying to run forward while still being chained to their current place.
And then once again, the topic of self love.
Your subconscious mind will only allow you to have the good stuff that it believes that you are worthy of.
The more self love you have, the more good stuff you will gift to yourself.
But if you subconsciously hate yourself, then guess what, would you ever gift something good to someone you hate?
Probably not.
Same principle here.
But if you love someone, then it is easy to give them gifts and make them happy, right?
Omg. THANK YOU SO MUCH.
You are literally a darling
I’m literally eating 6-7 cups of icecubes a day now because of it (to curb appetite)
Maybe this can help me too
And yes! He has a weight inducing field. Obviously I will never ever try it but it’s there alright
You are hurt right now friend.
You are not defined by what you are good at and what you are not; we canot define ourselves by statistcs and figures; those are bound to a finite, closed set, whereas you? You are limitless; infinite. You hold a light within; that makes you a freaking shining star
So you’re not just good. You are RARE
Let that sink in
On a practical level:
I would contact them and ask them WHY they didnt accept you into the program.
Ask them for suggestions on how to increase your chances next time.
Marks not good enough? You can work on that.
Too many people applying? You can work on increasing your chances.
It may be a matter of volunteering in a hospital for example.
Or getting a part time job as a nursing assistant, (you would need to get into and finish a program for that, but its short) to give u some hands on practical experiences working in healthcare/hospital/sick people). They want to accept people who will stick with and finish the program. You can make yourself a more viable candidate.
That is if u decide U want to reapply.
Even the fact that u would reapply (with better credentials/background) would show them u are serious.
(Also, as I recall u were already getting “burnt out” doing the preliminary school work.
I dont know the cause of this…but it isnt a good sign.)
Not only will they release that pressure, they will change your body chemistry for the better. There’s proven science behind my statement. And you yourself can notice it when you feel those tears sting as they roll down your cheeks. That stinging comes from the toxins you’re releasing from your body in your tears.
(Hearted the other good points our friends have made to you.)
I’m sorry you’re having such a tough time right now.
I believe it was George Bernard Shaw who waited for decades before anything of his was published and once it was, people would, as he put it “print anything with my name on it.”
I’m a big fan of late bloomers. I think they have more interesting stories than people who just achieve predictable, steady success their whole life.
You won’t be in this position forever, especially if you don’t give up on what you really want. And if you’re doing this to impress other people and not because it’s what you’re really wanting to do, that could be a reason it’s slow coming.
Just don’t give up, you know? You’re not a failure until you’re dead and then you probably still have some great opportunities even after that.
Start to define what success means to you - just you. Not the people who may label you a failure. Are they so amazing, by the way?
You’re probably better suited at doing something else, nursing is a tiresome profession at the end of the day.
When I haven’t achieved or got into something that I’ve really aimed for in life, it’s because something better suited and even something I hadn’t contemplated was available to me. I’d be so upset but it really just meant I needed to aim higher. What else would you do if you felt you had no limitations in life?
Hi, thank you!
Sorry, I must have lost this in the notifications.
I’m also working on weight loss :P Seems like since I’ve started listening to fields I’ve gained initially, which is why I was asking if listening to fields in general may have such an effect. After about 6 months, it seems like it’s slowly getting back into balance… or I’m getting used to it
Wow, wow, wow, wow, wow! That looks great! Though I live in Europe…
I did get me some Chlorella, Spirulina, Maca, Hemp Protein though… Intense
Yeah. I mean we can work on a group project for weight loss x fat burn but it would probably need to be two separate projects (male and female) for optimal results.
I still have the weight loss thing for my goal though. but I think the reason it won’t go down is because too many side effects from my medicines shrugs. I could say stop the side effects but Idk I feel like there comes a point where you just need to submit and work with what you got lol
The solidifier’s still a pretty cool concept though no doubt
I have it and shamelessly I’ll admit I stopped using it because it tastes like s*** lol.
you know that’s interesting because this actually happened to me a while back lol. so I stopped (listening). once I stopped I noticed a drop. I think - especially with adipose audios and all that- it’s important to take breaks. breaks are understated on here (imo)
like I’ve noticed since I’ve stopped- a total shift in myself (very positive). Anyways, energy work takes a lot of fuel (like food → and food = calories, but weight loss needs caloric deficit, aka they kinda clash).
If I use the sooidifier with a goal
Then send the sooidifier to a friend
My friend clears the sooidifier to program their own goal
What happens to my goal? (It hasn’t been cleared by myself)
