i’ve never really had an ex, but i definitely had strong feelings for others that i had to accept are different now.
i had to accept that whenever i thought of them i was no longer happy and the overall energy transformed into sadness, disappointment, and frustration.
i am learning now to just let those energies be there and live with how i feel and continue to move on.
i stopped burning the bridges because whenever i do i just find myself going through the same cycles and hurting another soul along the way.
i still use soul restoration. whenever they do decide to come back, i will respond with unconditional love.
they too have their own journey. my absence in their life allows them time to find out who they are and frees them to explore their world.
the time apart allows me to transmute what i feel about them through ho’oponopono.
maybe they’ll come back, but i can’t pause my life gambling on the possibility.
there’s so much beauty and rich emotion waiting to be explored with others.
i only say this to share my experience. i know others go through their feelings differently, but i do know that love is always there ready to blossom again and again.