Sure thing man.
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I have stated my view on judgement and our role as human beings in a society in another topic, which I am just going to quote here
This is where I am at right now. I view the actions of people that hurt me as one of infinite potentials, and I donât mean this in a denying, self-delusional way just to make me feel better.
What I have come to observe is that there tends to be a form of loneliness in people like us who dive into spirituality. The loneliness to know that other people donât really understand and probably never will. (Except this story with the empathy-orgy-cinema after your death is true)
When I was sick with Corona these past few weeks, there were people who told me that I have gone nuts, because I refused to take medicine and said that I would deal with it on my own.
There are other people, relatives of my friends and colleagues who got infected and suffer and donât know what to do. Part of me wants to reach out and show them what we do here, but the other part of me knows they wont listen. In the worst case they will tell others I have gone nuts and then people would start to treat me different from before and that would be unbearable.
The worst part of my existence as a subliminal creator is to watch people suffer and not being able to reach out to them. Sapien probably experienced the same.
Imagine what people would think of him if he told them what he was doing.
And I think this is the same for everyone on the spiritual path. Sometimes I really think Jesus, or Jeshua if you prefer, was one of the loneliest people. I can only assume that his biggest frustration was that he was trying to show people that the power lies within them and they just wont listen.
There is deep suffering in this spiritual loneliness. Maybe it is this suffering that keeps us seeking the answers.
To make a full circle to this topic; I donât think I am someone special. I donât think I am part of an elite who are the only ones who feel this way. I think everyone does, but most people are just very good at drowning this suffering and numbing it out.
Look at all the best-sellers in spiritual literature.
Neale Donald Walsch. Eckhart Tolle. Cafe at the end of the world.
The message is the same in all these books and people absolutely love it and buy them in the millions.
It is because these books and stories verbalize something that their soul wants them to know, but they canât hear the voice anymore.
We act âtoughâ. We have learned in school that we are better than someonee when we point out their mistakes and publicly humiliate them. And it works, somehow. And it has gotten us cold.
Someone who does bad to someone else suffers along with their victim because their soul canât recognize itself in their deeds and being.
In the end, all we ever want is happiness, freedom and peace.
The sooner we recognize this, the sooner we can let go off of this weird weird delusions and come back together.
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100% agree with all of this. I just ended up drawing a different conclusion. Canât save all of them and it is too painful to even try. Some people will even drag you down with them in their attempt to feel like theyâre not alone in their problems. And thatâs why I turned inward. I still maintain a âhelp people who come my wayâ policy but Iâm not actively seeking out helping others anymore. Just typing this is painful enough haha.
Plus if you keep trying to help people who are toxic to you, you risk developing more feelings of hatred. And thoughts about harming them for what they did to you. You risk becoming a bitter man, blaming the world for being so unfair. This is another reason why I decided to turn inward.
Itâs funny how Iâm both such an optimist and a pessimist. Utterly contradictory. I always tend to retain a little bit of hope that keeps me going (and trying) though.
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Maybe a solution for this is Neville Goddardâs idea of âEveryone is you pushed outâ.
I donât know if you heard of it, but it isnât as simple as it sounds.
It actually does take practice to grasp and to use, especially to let go of judgement.
Basically Neville Goddard is saying that our judgement of people holds them into place and that their behaviour is a manifestation of ours.
So we imagine people being a way we want them to be and let go.
I have tried this a few times and it was actually successful.
One time was with a fella who was struggling, and the other instance was a friend of mine whose mother was a bit uhh not-so-kind. In both cases it took a while, probably about half a year, but both of them significantly moved closer to what I had imagined for them.
Just an idea to try out, since we are conscious creators here.
I must say though there are instances where I think âI donât want to bother changing this personâs attitude. If they canât see themselves why it is wrong, it is not worth itâ
So there is a little part of us that wants to be miserable. So I too still got work to do in this department.
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I agree with this as well. In fact I remember not liking this particular doctor (I was in a bad mood myself that day). The next day, I just decided to be happy and be as friendly with her as possible and she turned out to be a really nice person!
I suppose thereâs gotta be a balance.
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Got this in my recommended, havenât watched it yet.
JP got some great advice, maybe it is valuable for someone
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Someone who is happy to see you happy. Who is never happy to see you in pain.
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After talking with you about revision I chose to use it again and I always love it to prove right what Neville Goddard taught so many years ago. I talked in another thread about how I healed myself from Corona using the Revision technique, so I will not go into that. I used Revision again on a few relationships and it worked immediately. I absolutely love this technique and its indications.
My relationships are full of fun, respect and joy again and this is exactly what I intended.
So good relationships are possible, we just have to choose it.
What I learned from my high school years(Last year of Highschool Still), A Real Friend is someone who tells you when you are wrong. Friends that always agree with you and always tell youâre right are just apprentices.
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