Looool! Agree: no pain, no gain.
But there’s another problem, BRO: I haven’t chosen La Bamba as a random example.
Remember these lines in the song:
“Yo no soy marinero, soy capitán”
I don’t want to be anybody’s captain, but the captain of myself and of my own life in ANY context. Emphasis on the ANY… and that, my Arizonian bro, is hell of a challenge.